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Sarasvati
May 16, 2009, 2:57 PM
Is anybody out there familiar with the site AdultFriendFinder? What do you think of it?
Cherokee_Mountaincat
May 16, 2009, 3:15 PM
Its ok if all you are looking for are one night stands. But than again, thats just my humble opinion...:2cents:
Cat
lv69cpl69
May 16, 2009, 4:55 PM
a member over a year (same name). no hook ups a lot of guys saying they are str8 but want to meet bi men or saying wife don't know so I won't reply to them but LOTS of photos and videos to beat off 2 :male:
12voltman59
May 16, 2009, 5:26 PM
Its ok if all you are looking for are one night stands. But than again, thats just my humble opinion...:2cents:
Cat
Agreed, Cat!!!
boca.openminded
May 16, 2009, 7:58 PM
Is anybody out there familiar with the site AdultFriendFinder? What do you think of it?
About a yr or 2 I was on it as a free member to check it out. I didn't have much luck so I wound up not paying for it. I just took advantage of its free options. Since then I popped on & off but never met anyone.
HOWEVER, I know a friend that met a guy who a yr later became her husband.
Like any other social site, it has its advantages and disadvantages but take it for whats its worth...
Coolhand_69
May 17, 2009, 1:16 AM
It is what it is.
We have met two couples that we remain very close friends with. On the other hand, we have met others that we did not click with. Still, no regrets here.
In a perfect world...
:cap::wendyico:
shaver6
May 17, 2009, 2:19 AM
I have met a couple of guys, and one couple on AFF and I'm a still a standard member. It's like any of these sites...you have to go through 20 people before you find just one that might have possibilites. On the other hand...I have NEVER met anyone on Bisexual.com :(
MarieDelta
May 17, 2009, 7:07 AM
Personally I would rather go to OKCupid, its free & I find that people are a little bit more open there.
But I suppose it depends on what you are looking for. I like the quizes and such on OKCupid too. The pics arent as "Adult" but they are good, maybe better? Because the guys arent allowed to post dick pics and the girls arent allowed to post nipple pics. So you get a better idea of the person. Don't get me wrong neither offend me (in fact I am pro porn) but when I look for a date thats not my first critereon.
Just my $0.02
BiphobiaFighter
May 17, 2009, 8:26 AM
Personally I would rather go to OKCupid, its free & I find that people are a little bit more open there.
But I suppose it depends on what you are looking for. I like the quizes and such on OKCupid too. The pics arent as "Adult" but they are good, maybe better? Because the guys arent allowed to post dick pics and the girls arent allowed to post nipple pics. So you get a better idea of the person. Don't get me wrong neither offend me (in fact I am pro porn) but when I look for a date thats not my first critereon.
Just my $0.02
I joined OKcupid early this year and met some people for friendly online chats (non-sexual). I still chat with one or two of them. But I deleted my account a few days after joining. I didn't feel comfortable with the chances of people I knew finding out that it was mine. And I didn't want to worry about checking that site or worry about whether I offended someone I was trying to compliment. So I simplified my life a little.
But I can vouch for the site. "it wasn't you, OKcupid, it was me!"
alegrias
May 17, 2009, 9:23 AM
Its ok if all you are looking for are one night stands. But than again, thats just my humble opinion...:2cents:
Cat
I think Cat's right. And not a lot of bi people on there. . . But every once in a while somebody gets lucky. (we did) If you go there, read the ads carefully.
_Joe_
May 17, 2009, 8:39 PM
Holy Taco has a crazy little blog going about their adventures on Adult Friend Finder
http://www.holytaco.com/we-join-adult-friend-finder-see-what-its-all-about
They do not code continuity very well, so you can search their page for ADULT and find the links to parts 2-5 after that.
http://www.holytaco.com/search/node/adult
dickhand
May 18, 2009, 11:42 AM
I have been a member for several years . It works for me . Maine is a mostly rural very redneck state . I can't imagine I would ever have met and had sex with the number of folks I have without it . Male , female and couples . Some one night stands but most have been repetes .
**Peg**
May 18, 2009, 4:59 PM
hmm.
well I was a member there, and my personal experience has been that 99% of the men were either married, or attached, most of them were cheating.
the other 1% were nuts.
over 3000 men viewed my profile and I met only ONE man... he turned out to be my nextdoor neighbour and we're good friends (only).
waste of time IMO
compare AFF to bi.com? no comparison. there are a LOT of fine single men here... ALL of them too far away from me... mostly American men (I'm Canadian).
_Joe_
May 18, 2009, 6:43 PM
Canada is sooo far away too. That's what you get with the metric system.
Coolhand_69
May 18, 2009, 9:11 PM
Ok, we did have thos eproblems with the "single" bi men.
After getting all the cock of the walk letters, we did settle on one guy that seemed to be ok. Invited him over one night for dinner and sex.
What a flake. Married also. We could have, maybe been ok with the married part if he had only been up front about it. Lie about one thing, lie about everything else.
After that, we just limited our search to couples and single women (there are flakes there also). Guess what? There are a few couples with bi husbands! And we welcome those!
As for this site. Guys can contact us here, and we will talk to you. We know that there are single quality guys out there. They are hidden from view by the dogs.
Also, for what it is worth. AFF is now Passion.com.
:male::female:
xxxcjs
May 19, 2009, 8:51 AM
I have been a member on and off for about 4 years. Its an ok site I have met some really fun people for the most part.
Sarasvati
May 22, 2009, 6:20 PM
Interesting comments