View Full Version : how to find local bi couples
curious1960
Jun 8, 2009, 7:40 PM
I have always thought about pleasing a bi couple and don't know where to start trying to find one, any suggestions?
thanks
IllinoisGuy
Jun 8, 2009, 8:17 PM
If you aren't finding a couple on here, there are things like Craigslist, Adult Friend Finder and such that you could turn to. How long have you been looking?
tempest4all
Jun 8, 2009, 11:47 PM
Adult Friend Finder is a scam as far as I can. I don't think alot of the people are real.
Cman949
Jun 9, 2009, 12:31 AM
Okay, so now I'm curious.
Why do you feel AdultFriendFinder is a scam? Did you have a bad experience with it? I've heard different things from different people.
Who's had good experiences or bad experiences with Internet dating sites - including this one.
Overall, which sites are the best for meeting people - for sex or for relationships based on your experiences and the experiences of others you know.
Is there a site out there that tracks this kind of stuff?
Cherokee_Mountaincat
Jun 9, 2009, 2:28 PM
Hon in my personal opinion, ya'll would be better off finding a good Lifestyle group and joining it to find other like minded folks to have fun with. Its alot safer than just meeting someone off of an ad-thing, and you have a better chance of finding Bi couples than you would on AFF or Craigs List. I cant Stand Craigs List...
Anyway, look on YahooGroups for Lifestyle/Swingers groups in your local area or in a surrounding area, and see what all you can come up with.
Good luck Sweetie. :}
Cat
Realist
Jun 9, 2009, 2:54 PM
CMAN, Last year, I met the nicest, most loving, and the absolute most sensual poly-bi woman I've ever known, right here. It seems that the best lovers I've ever had showed up when I least expected it.
I have used Craigslist and a site that's no longer in use....called Bianca, to meet both genders. I met a couple of nice folks with whom I had some rapport, but no long-term relationships evolved from them.
I was not attempting to meet anyone, only share some thoughts and posting them here, when my GF began to private message me. Before I knew it we were lovers and have been exclusive ever since.
However, a friend met a lady, who later became his wife, on Craigslist. They are very well-matched and have been connected at the hip ever since. So, I know it CAN work.
The way he met her was, he wrote a set of things that he required to be happy and fulfilled in a relationship. She was also using similar criteria, as she looked for a mate. He did not settle for less than he wanted and it took a while, but eventually they found each other. She fit his criteria and he fit hers! End of story.
So, if that makes sense, spell out what you want and see if anyone shows up who will fit the requirements! You just might end up with the exact lady, guy, or whatever, that you want!
IllinoisGuy
Jun 10, 2009, 10:46 PM
I've met people via Craigslist and AFF and have not had any problems with either one. I know people don't like AFF because it is a pay site and others don't like CL because there are alot of fakes on there. Like anything else, just be careful and you will find the person/people you are looking for.
opentoideas1964
Jun 10, 2009, 11:07 PM
I posted to craigs list in the men for mens section, and a women replied LOL. Met a nice married couple.