I have recently found out that my husband is bicurious

[hothousewife]

I have recently found out that my husband is bicurious. I went through a lot of
emotions like: How does this affect me? Where do we go from here? Is our
marriage coming to an end? Once we sat down and had numerous conversations I
realized that life could go back to "normal". Whatever that means. I searched
on line to see if there were any sites geared towards our situation and I
couldn't anything that I would call reliable or it was just porn. As we talked
more about this I found myself discoverying my own sexual identity. I could
finally admit that I was also curious about women. I hope that joining this
group we can talk to other happily married couples about their experiences. I
hope that we can make references on how to deal with situations that might arise
in our marriage due to bisexuality.

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

Well welcome to the Family, Hon. There are many of our ladies here that you can talk to and share their thoughts and ideas with you and the rest of us can help you with other questions and ideas that you may have. :}Again, welcome. :}
Cat
Everybody's Cat.

[codybear3]

Welcome hothousewife... I have been in other bi sites that offer nothing like this site does... Here, you will find many people with helpful advise, funny comments, some simple words meant to be helpful and downright honest good people... the chatroom is always jammin' with folks (I only lurk when I'm there from time to time) but I am sure you will find what you are looking for.... :paw::paw:

P.S. - Mind Cherokee_Cat very closely... Her word are full of Wisdom and only a fool would ignore her advise...

[onewhocares]

Hello Hot,

Welcome to this site. I agree with Cody that this site is unlike any other you will find. There are a wide variety of people her from all walks of life, all places on earth and of all sexual orientations. There are bi folks, straight, gay, lesbian, transgendered and any and all in between. You can read through the threads and find just about any topic you can imagine and the responses abound.

For me, a straight wife of a bi man, I have found a home. I came to find answers to questions and found a wonderful community. People are open, sharing, giving of themselves and their thoughts. It is just not a casual hook up site. Does that happen, yes it does.

I have to agree with one of your comments....that by talking about your husbands sexuality it has caused you to look at yourself. I can tell you that I have been in your shoes. I came here to get answers about my husband sexuality and I have found answers to my own....I have explored being with a woman and found that it was not right for me...I have found that I really do enjoy sharing a man with my husband. One other comment...you said through talking you have found answers....NEVER stop talking and sharing your thoughts and ideas..that is the key to a great relationship. It is hard work but then again anything that is valuable takes hard work.

Belle

[FalconAngel]

Welcome home.

You will find a lot of couples on this site that are both bi, Man is Bi, woman is Bi and any other combo you can think of.

At this point, we can't really add much to the thread that already hasn't been covered unless you have something specific to ask, but you will find a lot of helpful folks here.

Enjoy.

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

lol Oh Thanks Cody, just scare the lady! *Kiss to your cheek.*
Cat :bigrin:

[mrplayfuluk]

I get all warm inside when people find this site especially for the reasons hothousewife has expressed. This place has been good spot for all of us who arrived with unanswered questions about bisexuality in ourselves or others. The other point is its amazing ability to draw people back to the site after drifting away... incidently, anyone heard from Dark Eyes lately?

[TheBisexualProfessor]

Welcome! Others have done a great job of singing the praises of this site, so I won't repeat other than to say that I agree wholeheartedly.

Good luck on your journey. As the bi male half of a married relationship, I can tell you that absolute honesty with one another is most important. When I came clean with my wife we began a months-long journey that continues to develop. At first she was turned on, then not so sure, and now very insecure. When confronted by her questioning, I simply wasn't able to tell her I'd never have another guy-guy experience.

In place of honesty, a wall of silence has now developed and I just don't feel able to be vulnerable anymore. She probably doesn't either.

Good luck to you, wherever your journey takes you.

[Herbwoman39]

Welcome to the family!

This place is an invaluable resource with people who have been through it all. I hope you find the answers you are looking for.

I'm the Bi half of a Bi/Straight couple. When I first came out we found that the most valuable tool in our toolbox was communication. Don't be afraid to talk about everything that you are BOTH feeling.