View Full Version : Penis size: what's more important?
Mojo88
Jul 17, 2009, 4:41 PM
Just wondering what everyone thought...
littlerayofsunshine
Jul 17, 2009, 4:50 PM
Here's a run down of this and other penile issues:
http://main.bisexual.com/forum/showthread.php?t=7279
http://main.bisexual.com/forum/showthread.php?t=6302
http://main.bisexual.com/forum/showthread.php?t=5359
http://main.bisexual.com/forum/showthread.php?t=6012
http://main.bisexual.com/forum/showthread.php?t=5497
http://main.bisexual.com/forum/showthread.php?t=3059
http://main.bisexual.com/forum/showthread.php?t=2568
http://main.bisexual.com/forum/showthread.php?t=810
http://main.bisexual.com/forum/showthread.php?t=863
Hope these answer your question.. Happy Reading!
_Joe_
Jul 17, 2009, 5:19 PM
I prefer the ones that fit into the various holes on myself.
coldplay2009
Jul 17, 2009, 10:01 PM
I think as long as they know how to use it correctly, it doesn't matter.
innaminka
Jul 17, 2009, 10:44 PM
Although I think I have eschewed penises, from experience, a nice, pleasant garden variety sized one is just right for everyday marriage.
But ....
Believe me, every girl hould have at least one experience with a "whopper." :eek:
- the longer the better. Its amazing what happens to female plumbing when something just keeps on going in!!!!!!! (Inna blushes! - it was 10 years ago in Norway!!)
As I said, it would have been awful to have been married to "it" - but for a dirty weekend!!!! ...................
Beau89
Jul 18, 2009, 1:40 AM
As long as it can be sucked on, I am happy! :tongue:
southjohnsonwhitehor
Jul 18, 2009, 4:20 AM
I am telling you...
It is all about how you use! A big penis dosen't equal better sex! A small penis can just be as good! I had both and I prefer an average penis. Just my two cents worth.:flag1:
cand86
Jul 18, 2009, 5:40 AM
It really is how you use it (and actually, more like how you use it in conjunction with your hands, etc.), but in a war between length and girth, I'll go for length. My vagina cannot handle much girth, but really likes a gentle but firm bumping on my cervix. Of course, I can't handle that much length, either (I don't get how women take 9" or more!) . . . but I've encountered toys that are too wide for me and can't even use them, whereas I can at least enjoy a short one while wishing it was longer. If he's too big around, there's nothing we can do, but if he's too long, he can just enter shallowly.
Also, just as a side note, I think it's sad that the debates about penises are always focused on size and never aesthetics (well, I guess we're talking about practical usage, but I include visual enjoyment in the experience). There are some really ugly penises out there, and some beautiful ones, and size isn't a part of it . . . color, veins, curvature, how it looks with the balls, yada yada yada.
coldplay2009
Jul 18, 2009, 8:56 AM
I've only had 1 size. It was 5-6 inches long, but it was very thick. It took me a very long time in order for me to learn how to enjoy it. (We tried everything, lots of lube and various positions.) The key for me was to let all thoughts go and just let everything relax. The last time which was 2 month ago, we had sex for 45 minutes, he hit a certain area which made me grab the sheets and moan like crazy. That has never happened before. :rotate:
Orlando157
Jul 18, 2009, 9:20 AM
Geography is more important than size :tongue:
Realist
Jul 18, 2009, 9:27 AM
With me, it's the cerebral connection, compatibility, mutual interests and that thing I can't explain, but when you see it, you know it. Of course, the person has to be physically pleasing, but with me that covers a wide spectrum. Whether it's something ingrained in me, or not, it seems that the men I have been intimate with usually are not very well endowed and chubby. The best lover I ever had was endowed with only about 3.5". One was maybe no more than 4" and a couple were in the 5" range.
I had one young, slim, boyfriend, many years ago, who had an enormous uncut cock. I admit that I enjoyed looking at him and playing with him, but sucking him dislocated my jaws and you can forget anal! (Which I never cared about anyway) I'm surprised he stayed with me, so long. 7 years is a long time for any relationship, but when a person is as horny as he was, I felt like he'd think something was missing. Some guys love anything to do with a huge cock, but not me. I never felt I was exactly what he needed, but we were exclusive.
rissababynta
Jul 18, 2009, 9:32 AM
I definitely prefer average. Our bodies were made to only accomodate a certain size, so it makes sense that many people don't always feel comfortable with anything huge.
Bi-Zarro
Jul 18, 2009, 2:03 PM
I haven't had that many experiences with men, so maybe my opinion doesn't mean much, but anyway...
I know what I like to look at: long and thick. Outside of porn and in the real world, however...if it's too big there's not much I can do except stare admiringly and offer up a well-lubed hand.
REALBICPL
Jul 18, 2009, 8:03 PM
Hmm, I guess I am average or better ( 6 1/2" , average girth) and have never had any complaints , and no problem bringing my partners to multiple orgasms. I , on the other hand , like them no more than 7- 8", and thick. I'm just a little bad boy in that way!! Oh, and another thing, I am fortunate to be ablr to last as long as my partner can stand it, I Big Cock is no good if the user can't last for more than a few minutes!:male:
AdamKadmon43
Jul 18, 2009, 8:50 PM
It just never ceases to amaze me how much personal information people are willing to volunteer about themselves.
BrotherJack
Jul 18, 2009, 9:36 PM
It just never ceases to amaze me how much personal information people are willing to volunteer about themselves.
You've said this same line in another thread.....repetition...repetition...repetition.
Hypocrite!!! You come here and post this and you come directly drom the ''Mastorbating Room'' at Paltalk (sheesh...the owner of the room can't even spell!!), and you criticise people for being explicit here!!!
The room you had just left, was full of obese and unfit people.....craving to be told that they were beautiful and men with the most revoloting equipment one could ever...ever...not want to see.
You cooed at a a fat...flat breated redhead female and stared....gawping at what was on show....and what was on show was not a pretty sight!!
And you dare to criticise the people here for being explicit in words!!!
You spend all day filling yourself with whisky.....watching pornography....going into the sex rooms of Paltalk.....masturbating with other men on cam in the bi/gay rooms.....researching your obsession in religion and never doing anything to benefit another human being.....and you dare to criticise people here.
You are a prize jerk....a selfish and self centred man.....who gets ignored in the Paltalk rooms...unless you are playing the court jester. Lord alone knows what you do to get attention in the masturbating or blowjobs rooms........Do you collapse in front of your web cam...No..I guess those people won't have seen that.
You say you are amazed what people here will reveal. Well when you thought I was a guy on Paltalk...you revealed enough...and still kept your cap on!!!!
MissyMissy
Jul 19, 2009, 6:18 PM
uhh i didn't give out my SS#, Driver's Liscnce and such.
but wtf is wrong about talking cock.
i love cock. it can be sexy amazing beautiful and very tasty.
missy
jem_is_bi
Jul 19, 2009, 10:36 PM
My partner is both long and wide. We do not do anal sex. We do oral sex.
Me stimulating the head of his penis is his greatest satisfaction. Me, taking it all, while we do each other in 69 position is my greatest satisfaction. Plenty of other, action between start and finish. We have been together for more than 4 yrs. I have no problems with a wide, 9+ inches of pure pleasure. Two Hrs of sucking pleasure before the ultimate reward. I am very happy to have so much dick to suck.
acrviper00
Jul 20, 2009, 7:27 PM
Length is ok but I like girth more up to a certain point my ex gf also prefered girth over length but at least 6". We have one friend who is about 8" and thick as a coke can. It took me a long time to be able to take it with her helping teach me with toys but now I love it. She loves the way it makes her feel. They are together now but I still get to play with them sometimes.
bi6789
Jul 20, 2009, 8:17 PM
size is not the most important as long as it gets hard
jeancarleo
Jul 21, 2009, 11:21 AM
size is not important. I prefer them average, not too small and not too big. About 15-18cm is fine with me
12voltman59
Jul 21, 2009, 12:18 PM
I really do think that the most important thing in having some "rock your world sex" is not the size of the penis-or the breasts----it really is your attitude you bring to the sex---for me--I like to approach it passionately and with some humor too----also---be spontaneous--you aren't following some sort of script----the big thing--just relax---let the feelings flow and let things take their natural course--it seems that no two times you have sex with someone--even with the same person over and over--if you do approach it with a sense of fun and openness--it is always different.
The best thing to do is to simply ENJOY IT!!!!
I have to add this too---don't shut yourself out of some possibly great sex because a potential partner is "too old, too fat, not hott enough" and other such narrow minded and limiting concerns with the physical attributes of a potential partner----you never know what kind of fires burn down deep inside a package you may not find meets some narrowly defined physical parameters---things like youth and beauty are very fleeting things for most of us --we sure do lose our youth and whatever outward beauty we might have once had most cetainly--- in about 99.9999999999 percent of the human race --- goes pretty damn quickly too-----so---keep your mind and heart open to those who may not look "HOTT!!" by society's standards--but you just might find some other heat in them.
My signature below comes from Martin Luther King, Jr.---taking liberty with another of his famous quotes---I say that we should judge our potential sexual/romantically intimate partners on the quality of their character and good personality over their physical appearances---I have found that in far too many instances---those people who are absolutely spectacular physical specimens----are often incredibly ugly when it comes to the nature of their characters and personalities---they don't have to be nice--THEY LOOK SO HOTT MAN!! so everyone melts at their feet--for me-sure--I'd like some total hottie--male or female--in my fantasies-but for real life and being human--give me someone who may not look "HOTT"--but they are instead a nice, caring, passionate and compassionate person--I'll take them any day over a self-centered, self-absorbed, narcisstic ahole that looks "hott!!"
MickeyJohnson
Jul 21, 2009, 4:08 PM
If someone is huge is there any way they can suck in bed?
Randy from Pa
Jul 22, 2009, 8:18 AM
I agree with Volty......beauty is within the person,the outside will always change,for better or worse,attitude about being intimate is more important.Case in point I was very attracted to a woman who was about 5'4,heavy (maybe 190#),but had the most erotic,sexy personality and eyes. Altough I never got the chance to actually be with her,I still believe she was very beautiful and sexy. She since has pasted suddenly,but think of her everyday. Well just my :2cents: Randy
PassionateBiGuy
Jul 22, 2009, 7:33 PM
I love a large cock with a swollen mushroom head. I prefer six inches and thick to eight inches and thick. Girth makes up for length and length makes up for girth. So a nice thick six incher will make me swoon just as much as an average thickness eight incher will. I like to feel filled in my mouth and throat.
BI FANATIC
Jul 22, 2009, 10:53 PM
the penis that is in my mouth/or for that matter any other hole! but longer the better!
Bii Grl
Jul 23, 2009, 6:16 AM
:flag4:lol i voted thick...but..to be honest i love men especially my sexii man just... i hate penis's. call me crazy and/or weird lol but i dont care. and like they are nasty and weird. i prefer pussy. and my lady got that. but whatever. i mean i will have sex with him. i love him. it will just be very weird.
ohbimale
Jul 23, 2009, 2:02 PM
I admit I voted Girth. I have been with a few guys over the years and the most satisfying cocks are the average size ones (5 to 7 inches hard) that are nice and thick. Like many others who enjoy giving head I enjoy the tasty reward at the end, especially when I make him want to jump out of his skin. I just enjoy cock a lot. :male::male::flag2:
rick1958
Jul 24, 2009, 3:31 PM
rcdoak@gmail.com size is not important to me as long as its hard an cums
grxclaus
Jul 25, 2009, 5:29 PM
I agree with coldplay. As long as you know how to use it, it shouldn't matter. If size does matter, it's probably time to move on.
barebum4
Oct 4, 2011, 6:08 PM
Size is not extremely important. However, I am mostly bottom and a cock that is too short simply cannot hit the spot that makes anal sex feel so good, the P-spot so I do prefer at least an average size cock, which in my mind is around 6". Of course a little bigger is nice too. This said, even a perfect size cock is no fun if the owner does not how to use it.
jorgea
Jan 10, 2012, 4:22 PM
That is an issue that would receive many possible answers.
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