Tips for a virgin

[Bevin&Garet]

Hi! We're a new couple here on Bi.com. My name is Bevin, my boy's name is Garet. We're going to be sharing this account, since we're both looking for the same (ish) things.

So, I got chewed out (no pun intended) on Myspace today for bringing up the fact that I've just decided to test out the whole girl thing. Apparently only teenagers are "bi-cuz they're trendy" and Bi-Curiosity doesnt exist. Dumb Bitches. I didnt want to have sex with them ANYWAY.

Onward: I just want to know how same-sex persuit works... aside from everyone wearing a name tag with their sexual orientation on it so we don't have to guess. I've been thinking about this whole thing for a while now, and my boyfriend is on the same page with me about all of this. We're going to mess around with our respective sexes for a bit to warm up and hopefully combine forces in the long run. But, I haven't tried it yet and I really REALLY want to. I'm just bashful.

Any of you have some chick picking-up tips for me? How do you find out if a girl is Bi (or interested) in the first place? WHAT ARE THE RULES??!??!?!

[JohnnyBiloxi]

The two of you sound cute -- be yourselves, don't rush things, be polite and think of others! Sexuality, like all social behavoir, is about how we treat each other! Wish I were in your neck of the woods to have a cup of java and talk about fantasies!

Johnny :bibounce:

[cchalmer]

Without meaning to sound sarcastic...there are no rules. What works for one person probably won't work for you. The best suggestion that I"ve got for you is right here. We are a large group of people from all over the place. Join us in the chatroom and ask questions of the people you find there. For the most part....everyone of them will be willing to tell you what works for them or suggestions for websites down to what bars in your area are known "gay" bars.

Take your time and be sure of who you hook up with....one wrong partner can cause no end of trouble.

Good luck.....