Dissapointed

[Tall John]

I'll tell you what, I don;t know if there is anything more dissapointing than a bad sexual experience. Last night I was having sex with a guy, he gets in me, feels really good, I was moaning with pleasure, sounds like a good start right? about 8 thrusts and he's done. I'm like "What happened?" He says to give him a sec, and he'll try again. Ok, I can do that. Well, he gets hard again, and now he fails to even get inside. He basically poked all around the hole, without once hitting the target. Hell, he probably had more contact with my balls than anything. So then he just gets up after 10 minutes of failure, and get dressed. So I did too and just left, and he didn't say a thing really. In fact the only thing he said to me was that he came so fast because I was "too tight."

I just needed to vent here I guess. What do you think I should have said to him? I felt a little bad for him, but I was a tad pissed too, not because of his performance, but the churlish attitude that accompanied a none too impressive experience...

[llllllllll]

least he could have done was blow you before he left

[BfloBiFun]

So it was your fault for being "to tight". . . lmao. . . what a shit, how many ads do you read saying "my ass/pussy is so loose and streached out a bus can park in it", well you can't help but run into a rude person now & then. All he had to do is say "sorry i lost it" or something like that . . . above post. . .lol, yeah he could have done that to make-up for it . . .

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

John-honey, I think he was just humiliated because he came too quickly and because he couldnt get it hard again. Look at it from his perspective too.:} You just felt too good and he couldnt help himself..or you..:}
Hugs Hon
Cat

[roy m cox]

sounds like he has a problem with ether
Impotence and High Blood Pressure

http://impotencetimes.com/2009/02/impotence-and-high-blood-pressure/


or he has been poison like insecticide or some heavy metals can be a big problem i have it ill get hard for a bit and just when the fun starts its like damn

but it may be more of a blood pressure thing so don't be to mad at him he mite be very embarrassed about the whole thing just some thing to think about
http://www.in-bed.info/scripts/pages/en/what_is_erectile_dysfunction/what_causes_erectile_dysfunction/high_cholesterol.php

[Tall John]

I know what you're saying cat, that's why I said I felt a bit bad for him, but he did get hard, he just apparently couldn't aim and then quit.

Maybe you are right roy, but I wish he would have said something at all. I mean he literally rolled off me and just got dressed without a word and left the room. I probably would have said something, but to tell the truth, I was shocked speechless.

Regardless, I doubt he'll have the pleasure of my company again...

[aries76]

Regardless, I doubt he'll have the pleasure of my company again...
That's probably the best solution. I agree with what other people said, he should have "helped you out" before just dropping his load and leaving...

No matter what, you should always make sure the other person has a smile on their face too.... Selfish lovers suck, er, in this case, didn't...

I would be pretty disappointed too.

[Focker]

Sounds to me like neither one of you had much invested in this. Meaning, you didn't really know each other, or care for each other. So fuck it, and let it go.

[rissababynta]

least he could have done was blow you before he left

LMFAO yeah, that would have been nice.

[littlerayofsunshine]

All I can think about is

Its nice to finally have a man go through something women go through...lol

It ain't childbirth, but its a start...

Could have been worse hun...

He could have just rolled over and fell asleep. You still would have been upset, but you also would have had to look at him and listen to him snore and fart all night..

Can Ya tell I have been left hanging before? LMAO


That's one of the things about encounters, you can choose not to encounter them again... Of course.. You should clearly email or call him and tell him what a douche he was and how based on his performance, you two aren't sexually compatible.

Sometimes you have to rub a little salt in the wound, and make it sting real nice.

He was just an inconsiderate person.

[rissababynta]

He could have just rolled over and fell asleep. You still would have been upset, but you also would have had to look at him and listen to him snore and fart all night..

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LMFAO Oh my god, I'm crying over here right now after reading that one.

[littlerayofsunshine]

TallJohn-Do not email him back and tell him this.

Doing this will just make you look very weird, crass, tacky, obsessed, make you look majorly insecure, and it makes it look like you have stalker issues when it was just a hook up and you discovered you were not compatible with him.

Be an adult, chalk it up to experience, and just let it go.

At least you got laid.

If you wanted him to jerk you off or suck you off you should have told him this, or maybe he figured that you are one of those men that prefers to masturbate himself when he gets fucked and he figured that you would get yourself off as most men have to do this when getting fucked.



Obviously my whole response was an attempt at humor. If I had meant to add advice, I would have added the words 'seriously I would..yadda yadda.....'

*Shrugs* At least Rissa got a chuckle, and that makes me happy :)

[mikey3000]

As a guy who has, "jumped the gun" a few times, I have never left without taking care of the other person. If anything I work harder orally to bring special satisfaction. Anything else is just selfish. The bulk of my pleasure is knowing and seeing the pleasure I'm giving to the other person. That's what I really get off on.

[Lienda]

One of those two second goers huh? That's a little selfish of him. Maybe he needs a round of bondage.