Straight girls turned on by two men together?

[Android]

I had a conversation with a female friend recently who told me that she often fantasises about two guys together. She always asks about me and my boyfriend, when she's had a few drinks she wants me to describe in detail what we get up to in the bedroom.
I've dated a few hetero girls in the past and some of them ignored the fact I was bi, others were very put off by it. I haven't actually met that many straight girls who enjoy the idea of two men together - what are your experiences with this? Is it a common thing? I'm curious!

[roy m cox]

"erfs" id give my left nut if i could find a girl friend that would not mind me having a boy friend to most girls i come across don't like the fact that im a bisexual and get turned off by it i have been looking for one that will go with me even when i have my boy friend hear,, and still no luck :(

[wpbjax]

Let me add a bit of my personal insight to help answer your question. Although I have had limited M/F/M experiences ALL of the women were extremely turned-on by our M/M play. Needless to say, this caught me completely off guard as I always assumed M/M contact was viewed by the ladies as gross, etc. Maybe some of the female members can help shed some light on why this happens...greg:tongue:

[Ty232]

I used to have a G/F that was totally turned on by it and it was enjoyable but I have since married and have not been with a guy since and she would freak if she knew what happened and how I would like to be with a guy again.

[Mrs.F]

This may sound strange but I like watching gay porn and get turned on by it. But I just can't watch my husband be with another man. He's asked me many times if I would like to watch or join in and I just can't do it.

Why??? I guess knowing he's bi and wants to be with guys is ok with me and I have no problem with that (at times) but watching it would for some reason in my mind change who he is to ME. I can't explain this feeling and I've tried to figure it.

[chick_a_dee]

My wife enjoys watching me with another male friend. She says it's a major turn on for her. She says she likes to watch how two men interact during sex. We have met some other couples who's wives enjoy watching their men have man sex. :bigrin:

[ivanthemonkey]

There is a strange, albeit logical, reason for women to get hot over watching men with other men. And it is largely to do with jealousy. The ideal being that women wish to see men engaged in sexual activity, however there is a natural biological urge for a woman to be jealous when watching a man have sex with another woman. One of the reason women for women to dilike porn in general is because the object of their desire being shown (the man) is shown with another women, and their jealousy will make them dislike this.

With man on man however their is no "Other Woman" to be jealous over, so they can watch without the associated negativity of their object of desire (the males) from being with another woman.

Mind you this is only one aspect of why women enjoy men on men, but I find it to be an interesting one.

[goldenfinger]

Some time ago, I was watching "The Making Of Queer as Folks" and was told that 50% of viewers were women. My wife, thou "not straight or bi" ? enjoys gay porn, especially when they do a 69.But I guess, for women to admit that, is a bit like most bi people admitting that they are Bi.

[JP1986UM]

My wife regularly gets off on the idea, but feels some trepidation at being in it. However, she is into my finding a BF and making sure he's a carpenter so we can finish the basement!! :bounce::wiggle2:

[csrakate]

I've encountered it online.

I was looking at book reviews on Amazon.com last night and there was a book that is clearly written only for bisexual and gay men and a woman wrote about how she was majorly turned on by the stories which is rather odd.

As for the Japanese animation that's about men having gay sex and it's written or designed by women for women they can keep it, as most gay and bisexual men do not like this tripe and most women be they bisexual, straight, or lesbian do not know anything about sex between men, and are not men.

Why is it so odd? Women are sexual beings just like men and can find certain things erotic, be it straight sex, bisexual sex or gay sex. Personally I don't find any animated sex to be a turn on, but to each his own.

[mikey3000]

I'm finding that more and more women are slowly getting turned on by m/m sex. The guy at the video store said about 50% of m/m porn rentals is by straight women.

I was lucky to find out my wife is immensely turned on by gay porn, bith m/m and f/f. We watched Sean Cody videos just last night. She is crazy of the image of me with another man, though she doesn't know if she wants to partake. And I'm not sure if I want her to either. My man time is my man time.

[Falke]

My wife recently got to watch me and another guy have sex. When all was said and done, she was just dripping wet! :bigrin:

[darkeyes]

*Shivers at the very thot..but dus hope every1 involved has luffly time*:)

[Gearbox]

I overheard my sisters friend tell her once that she happened to notice the cock of a local donkey and had to run home and play with herself.:tongue:

So I think it's about the cocks at play. In most gay porn you'll find the focus on big hard cocks.(yes! That's true!:rolleyes:).
Also, isn't it right that straight women get turned on by two big muscular brutes fighting, like gladiators?
Put the two together and :love87:

Who could blame the poor things?

[csrakate]

I overheard my sisters friend tell her once that she happened to notice the cock of a local donkey and had to run home and play with herself.:tongue:

So I think it's about the cocks at play. In most gay porn you'll find the focus on big hard cocks.(yes! That's true!:rolleyes:).
Also, isn't it right that straight women get turned on by two big muscular brutes fighting, like gladiators?
Put the two together and :love87:

Who could blame the poor things?

Don't know if the above response from Gearbox is tongue and cheek...but no...I have no desire to see two big muscular brutes fighting, nor do I find the mere presence of a cock to be what I find arousing about male on male sex. It's the sheer eroticism of the act...two men sharing and giving each other pleasure...what's not to love?

[parkwings]

I'd say the average female does not think about two guys going at it much at all. But hey, what do I know!

[jamiehue]

My wife recently got to watch me and another guy have sex. When all was said and done, she was just dripping wet! :bigrin:

We damn near had to recesciate her... hot one.

[jamiehue]

resuscitate.

[allbimyself]

*Shivers at the very thot..but dus hope every1 involved has luffly time*:)

Fran would rather see two sybians together.. :tong:

[FinkDoodle]

I actually got into the whole bi thing because of a few women's interest in that subject.

There used to be a chatroom on AOL called Female for BiMales and I wandered in one time just out of curiosity. At that point I really had no interest in men and had never even thought about sex with guys - but I am a little adventurous and I found the topic kind of intriguing since it kind of stood out from the rest of the lame titles.

It became my new favorite room and the women were so interesting that eventually I took one of them up on an invitation to join her and her boyfriend just as an experiment to see if I liked it . . and here I am :)

There's quite a few women out there into bi men - but since they rarely talk about their interest they can be really tricky to find. I've actually gotten great response on this site, since women can look here for bi men without any fear of offending anyone. :)

[darkeyes]

Fran would rather see two sybians together.. :tong:

...an thats 2 sybians unplugged wiv no passengers jus sittin in corner doin nowt an all...:tong:

[diB4u]

;)Personally, there is NOTHING better than seeing two men together, either romantically, sexuallly or non sexually together.
I love watching gay male porn- theres just something rather lovely watching two men together... cough, yes please :bigrin::bigrin::bigrin::bigrin:

[the sacred night]

I love me some man on man sex, but then I'm not straight, so I'm not sure if that answers your question or not ^_^

As to why: same reason dudes like lezzie porn?

[Android]

I love me some man on man sex, but then I'm not straight, so I'm not sure if that answers your question or not ^_^

As to why: same reason dudes like lezzie porn?

See, I don't like girl on girl porn, I prefer to see some penis involved in some way:tong:

[cutebutt37]

I have told all women over the years that I am bi.
Most have then told me that they are, or are curious.
I have had my fair share of group sex. Some bi women like to watch me suck cock as much as I like to watch them lick pussy.
One woman I dated for 5 years used to love double penetration. I used to love licking her juices off his cock.
Surprising actually how many straight women also get turned on at group sessions watching men together.
Lets face it, in the heat of the moment, when a group is buzzing, virtually anything goes.....and often does.

[nocturnal08]

today is my birthday all i want is some m/f/m lovefest i guess im not geytting anyu younger id say all i can hope for is that my b-day wish comes true:tongue::bigrin:

[chub-bi]

I was in a MFM relationship where my buddies wife would get so turned on by 'her boys sucking each others cocks" that I would have to eat her immediately after we were done 69'ing. She absolutely loved watching a guy with a cock in his mouth, especially if it was her hubby.
Many times I laid on my back ...she sat on my face and came multiple times watching her husband as he sucked my cock. Boy I miss those days.

Also back a number of years I had a close friend who was a lesbian. Occasionally I would hang out with her and her girl. After years of friendship
one night we had a threesome and all of us really enjoyed it. It became a semi regular thing and things progressed from me just basically watching to
getting pegged with a strap-on. They both enjoyed watching a guy eat his cum and fell into each others arms after I had done so. Then another friend of theirs was introduced to me, a married neighbor who would stop by and we would give each other head while the girls watched. The girls also joined in until both of us guys took turns sucking each other while getting nailed with the dildo. More fond memories!

[Gleekybaby]

Its a fantasy of mine to have a MFM or watch MM. Both myself and my partner are Bi.
He knows i would very much like to forefill my sexual Fantasy but then again...
I love watchen Porn, MF, FF or MM etc, reading Porno's but they have to be good....

Where he might like to read a good porno, Watchen one isnt his thing.
I may never get my MFM or watch MM in RealTime because i dont want to share my partner and he dont want to share me... *giggles*

All the same MM is a real turn on for me...

[BLCHGK777]

In Japan there's a whole genre based on it. http://www.animenewsnetwork.com/encyclopedia/lexicon.php?id=23

I know a lot of people obsessed with this stuff you can be like 10 years old and buy it in any book store so it's like not regulated but stuff is total fluff and the characters can be super girly :smoke:

[Karasel]

I know plenty of bi girls who love yaoi (both explicit and fluffy yaoi), but I have never met a straight girl who likes yaoi, or anything like that.. But I did get a straight guy into enjoying it though. o.O

I myself like to watch men go at it... But much rather watch women.

For those of you who don't know...

Yaoi = Japanese anime/manga (shows or comic books) with gay male relationships and/or sex.

[rswjc]

I know plenty of bi girls who love yaoi (both explicit and fluffy yaoi), but I have never met a straight girl who likes yaoi, or anything like that..

That's surprising to hear. I have a number of straight girl friends who love yaoi and shounen-ai if not obssessed, and I've talked with several straight girls online who like to watch Japanese GV. It may be because that I haven't met that many bi girls. I orginally thought the majority of girls who like yaoi are straight, but that was just my personal assumption. But I have girl friends who are straight and dislike bl or consider mxm intimacy as disgusting. I'm not sure if it's more considering two guys together as erotic than being turned on. Indeed a hard question.

[Karasel]

I don't know... Most of my friends are bi or gay anyway. Most of my girlfriends who like anime/manga are bi. I have a few straight girlfriends, but none of them are interested in anime/manga, or yaoi in real life or in drawings.

[rswjc]

I see. It's just happens that I encounter the opposite. I think there are girls either straight or bi who like yaoi. Some of my friends love to watch yaoi anime, read yaoi manga and fanfiction. I have a straight girl friend and she would tell me the time when she sees two good looking guys being intimate in public and says how sweet they looked and regretted that she didn't take a picture.

[AchingBlossom]

I always say if there's one thing better than a hot, horny guy, it's two hot horny guys! If I had a choice between watching two men, two women or a man and woman go at it, I'd take two men any day!

Anyway, for those of us ladies who dig m/m action, I want to mention a few websites:
http://www.reviewsbyjessewave.com/
[reviews of m/m romances and erotica]

http://www.syzygymag.com/
[an upcoming mag which features m/m erotic stories illustrated with photos of actual men going at it]

http://www.filamentmagazine.com/
[not strictly a m/m mag, but they did have an m/m story in issue #1 and a m/m photoshoot in issue 3]

[Apleasureseeker]

Back when I was only into girls, a lot of the more sexually aggressive girls I know fantasized about guys together. Interestingly, I found that straight girls were generally more into the idea. I was surpried to find that the hot young "bi" girls were grossed out by the idea. But I think they really liked the idea that their "bi" antics got them the attention of the guys, and M/M activity took all the attention of of them.

Now, the girls that were really into bi men were more into seeing intimacy between the guys, like kissing & cuddling and so forth. Much more than the actual sex. Sadly, not my cup of tea.

[Dog62]

Now, the girls that were really into bi men were more into seeing intimacy between the guys, like kissing & cuddling and so forth. Much more than the actual sex. Sadly, not my cup of tea. My ex g/f was just the opposite..as far as she was concerned, skip the kissing and get straight to the sucking. She loved (well still loves) to see guys suck each other, especially to completion.

[mikey3000]

After my most recent guys weekend away ( last week), my wife was ready and waiting for me when I got home. She wanted a piece of me too. It turned out that her thinking of me and my two gay friends drove her wild. I HAD to explain in great detail what they did to me and what I did to them. She is immensely arroused by it. After those few days and the welcome home sex from her, my hips still ache.

So yes, my woman loves man on man sex. Lucky me !!!:bigrin:

[Sensuallovers2]

This is one of our biggest fantasies, with one caveat: she gets to be at the center of it, not the guys. Most bi male erotica seems more like gay erotica with a woman "spliced on" to the sidelines, and we've watched a lot of MMF scenes in a variety of movies/videos. I (male) love it when she turns on to another bi guy, then I can play with him, and then we both can play with him, then he and I can play with her...

Is this what you had in mind?

[MissLadybug]

I find it sexy and a turn on.

I enjoy watching gay porn and have been involved with MFMs before.

Just something in the way they are into each other and that passion.

[krieg138]

My girl gets off to it. She's been pushing for me and a guy for some time, though I'm not comfortable having men on the side. The last girl I was with was into it, too, but she was bi. A close (straight) friend of my sister thinks "bi guys are fucking hot."

[Apleasureseeker]

Watching the eyes of a girlfriend light up as my cock dissapeared into the throat of a young guy we shared is one of the hottest experiences! I thought she was going to cum right there (afterward, she told me she nearly did).

[jfra18]

MY wife wants to see me with another man, just talking about it gets her super hot

[bicowboy]

Actually my wife is turned on by the ideal of me being with another man sexually. She has watched me giving & receiveing oral sex with a guy and it does get her HOT!...:tongue:

[tscraver]

had a gf who talked about quite a bit then she said "let's go for it!" She got sooo horny watching me with another guy that now she wants it to be a ppart of our sex-play at least once a month. She loves to watch me suck a cock. Hey, I like to please her!

[Sajibee]

I actually find it really hot when I see two good-looking guys together, the same way a lot of straight men might find two pretty women together attractive. It just depends on the person I gues

[Bicuriousity]

Great topic. I'll agree I think I've found more bi women open to it but have met a few straight girls that like it as well!

:tongue:

[NYRangersFan]

I'm finding i'm more into guys,,,, then being into women...then again for me its attraction by knowing not attraction by seeing. but i've always thought two guys were hot...even before i knew i did have some attraction to girls.. even now i find i get off more to two men then streight or les....and sometimes i wish i was a guy ..cock envy maybe? i don't know but sometimes i think it'd be great to have one to stroke....though thats getting off topic lol... i think two guys are hot :P

[Apleasureseeker]

MMF is also a great way for straight guys to explore the experience (as everyone should be able to do if they want to) without compromising their identity. Unfortuantely that also makes it great blackmail material for the girl (or the other guy)!

In any case, if more women were outspoken about liking bisexuality in men, more men would be open to it. I really beleive that the acceptance of bisexuality for women came about not from the Feminists so much as the horney old guys in the media who put more of it in the movies and on TV!

[indenver_indenver]

I have been married to 2 women who thought M2M oral sex was hot. I also have known and dated 2 others who got turned on by it. My present wife used to love to watch me suck cock. Lately she has lost interest. Too bad for me.

My wife used to like it when my partner dominated me by pinning me down and fucking my mouth. She would jerk the guy off into my mouth telling him to "shoot it down his throat!" I'd almost cum without touching myself.

Lately I have had a hard time finding a steady partner. Most say they want a long term arrangement and turn out to be blow'n go. Very disappointing. I think that is why my wife has lost interest. She has preferred it when the guy becomes a friend and is a regular. And, for that matter, so do I.

[Curiouscourier]

I like to watch 2 men having sex all the time. I am in a very committed married relationship with my wife. She knows that i have a fantansy about me have sex with another man. We watch mmf videos toghter all the time and she excepts that watching 2 men having sex really really turns me on.

[Jorja]

There is a strange, albeit logical, reason for women to get hot over watching men with other men. And it is largely to do with jealousy. The ideal being that women wish to see men engaged in sexual activity, however there is a natural biological urge for a woman to be jealous when watching a man have sex with another woman. One of the reason women for women to dilike porn in general is because the object of their desire being shown (the man) is shown with another women, and their jealousy will make them dislike this.

With man on man however their is no "Other Woman" to be jealous over, so they can watch without the associated negativity of their object of desire (the males) from being with another woman.

Mind you this is only one aspect of why women enjoy men on men, but I find it to be an interesting one.


Hmmmm...I have to disagree with the jealousy thing...maybe for a small number that may fall true. I like to watch two men because its different to me, not something I have already seen and done....I could just as hotly watch a woman suck my man off but, I can do that, cant I ...so..it bores me...seeing his face when a MAN takes his cock gets me hot...the fact that its a MAN not a WOMAN that is making HIM hard...thats what makes me hot....its how HE is feeling at the time...I dont always like to watch who is sucking or fucking, but who is being sucked and fucked OMG!!!....maybe its because its a taboo thing...maybe its the secrecy of it...maybe its just because its fucking hot!!!

[Kesava]

I always thought I was strange that I was turned on by two men together. I wondered if perhaps I used to be a gay man in my past life (not that I believe in that sort of thing). I find it very stimulating. I often think of two men together when I am playing solo. I am lucky enough to date a guy that doesn't mind me talking about what interests me. He doesn't mind that I am bi, but I am not sure he will ever try it.

[Tx46M]

Let me add a bit of my personal insight to help answer your question. Although I have had limited M/F/M experiences ALL of the women were extremely turned-on by our M/M play. Needless to say, this caught me completely off guard as I always assumed M/M contact was viewed by the ladies as gross, etc. Maybe some of the female members can help shed some light on why this happens...greg:tongue:

My ex-wife was (is?) bi and loved seeing guys get it on and was very vocal about it when we made love. I am not romantic about men in the slightest however mm sex can be hot....!!!

1:2cents:

[burlingtonbi]

This may sound strange but I like watching gay porn and get turned on by it. But I just can't watch my husband be with another man. He's asked me many times if I would like to watch or join in and I just can't do it.

Why??? I guess knowing he's bi and wants to be with guys is ok with me and I have no problem with that (at times) but watching it would for some reason in my mind change who he is to ME. I can't explain this feeling and I've tried to figure it.

I have to agree here in terms of the missus saying that it changes who he is to me. I was in a situation where me and another guy orally pleased one another in front of her and it did in fact change who I was to her, now after trying to erase that memory in her mind, she found it very tough to bear for years with the thought of "is he going out looking for other men" while he has me at home.
So short story here and I guess this is why after 8 yrs I am now single and on the outside looking in, longing desperately to be with her again.

[mikey3000]

Oh man, that sucks!!! So sorry to hear that. That's why I can understand why some guys are on the down low. If it works for them, fine.

Best of luck dude.

[Apleasureseeker]

I have to agree here in terms of the missus saying that it changes who he is to me. I was in a situation where me and another guy orally pleased one another in front of her and it did in fact change who I was to her, now after trying to erase that memory in her mind, she found it very tough to bear for years with the thought of "is he going out looking for other men" while he has me at home.
So short story here and I guess this is why after 8 yrs I am now single and on the outside looking in, longing desperately to be with her again.

Not just regarding bisexuality. Pretty much any 3-sum activity is going to profoundly change the nature of a relationship if the participants aren't prepared and expereinced (and often, even if they are). 3-sums are great, but people don't realize how they can irritate exposed nerves. Most guys who finally got the two girls they always dreamed of had to deal with a lot of complicated jealousy issues for months after.

3-sums are best with very sexually open and mature couples or 3 people who don't know each other very closely.

[disappointed]

I am a straight girl who likes bi men. I have no problem at all. I just need him to be honest and open about it. If you hide it,it makes me feel like you are doing something wrong.
Sex is to be enjoyed and experienced for pleasure. Relationships are for everyday life.

[Apleasureseeker]

I am a straight girl who likes bi men. I have no problem at all. I just need him to be honest and open about it. If you hide it,it makes me feel like you are doing something wrong.
Sex is to be enjoyed and experienced for pleasure. Relationships are for everyday life.

Nice! Personally, I think everyone's entitled to a little secret, and if a person's explored once or twice on their own, I don't care, but if I find out, I wanna hear the juicy details!
In a relationship, or if someone's got another relationship on the outside they really should be honest about it, or it becomes a sort of power struggle> I once dated one of those girls who felt it was OK fro her to fool around with other people (since she was bi), but that i shouldn't, because the man has to be loyal. I don;t undertand that "logic" at all, but I hear it's quite common.

[hot29bim]

Where are thes women at. I would love to find an woman turned on by bi men. The thought of a woman watching me suck another man gets me so excited. one that dresses me up would be perfect.

[Giggles100]

Where are thes women at. I would love to find an woman turned on by bi men. The thought of a woman watching me suck another man gets me so excited. one that dresses me up would be perfect.

Lmao! You don't have to look.... They normally have a way of finding you! Expect drunk girls over your house to hint or blurt it out in conversation with the rest of the gang :bigrin:

[centillini]

Where are the ladies that want to see two guys? This is my dream come true a lady watching me with another guy, coaching, and getting off, oh yeah, would love to do what it takes to turn her on.

[FinkDoodle]

I guess I'm in the minority.

I never even remotely thought about sex with men until I stumbled onto an old AOL room called "Female for Bi Male." The women there were very friendly and totally turned on by two men together and eventually I got together with a couple I met there for my first MFM.

Since then I've met quite a few attractive women, both straight and bi, who like bi men and I've actually gotten emailed by several from this site.

They're out there . . they just don't talk about it much :)

[crazy_cat_lady]

I thought I was the only one to like seeing 2 guys kissing among other things. so yes I am one of the few women to like watching that, :bigrin:

[tpk925]

My gal loves watching me and my friend suck each off. She will suck with me!!!:tong: