Help out a novice

[Booker]

I'm a mature MWM reviving my bi-side that's been dormant except in my fantasies. I want to learn how to clean my anus out really good before lubing and receiving. Thanks for the advice.

[ChgoDom]

You can either use a Fleet Enema or you can go out and buy an enema bag. If you fill the bag with warm soapy water, slide the tube in your ass, release the water until you are full and hold it, that will really get you cleaned out and ready for ass play as well. The Fleet one is quick and not too messy, the regular bag will put a quart or more in your ass-which all has to come back out again. That can be a bit of a mess if you're not careful.

[Booker]

Thanks. ONe more question: Getting lube into my ass to help the lubed dick enter. Besides putting some on my finger and pushing it in, are there devices on the market? (Like the way hemorrhoid tubes come with the internal applicator.) Appreciate the brotherhood of bisexuals mentoring this old dog learning new tricks.

[Realist]

Booker,

Before I'd use soap, I'd investigate other methods of using enemas. The colon has it's own lube and harsh soaps may take this away and cause you to be irritated. There are things to use from a pharmacy that are specifically for enemas.

Gently fingering your lover's anus with lube on it, has a two-fold purpose, It will allow you to relax and receive the lube, too. I'd recommend Anal_Eze, or KY Jelly. There are others, too. Ensure your lover is very gentle and will take his time to enter you. It may take a while to allow him all the way in. You may want to try differing sizes of smooth objects, that are progressively larger, beforehand.

Personally, the two lovers I've had, who I allowed to enter me, were both smaller and the process was almost effortless. Lube is your friend and too much is almost enough!

[mikey3000]

I'm a mature MWM reviving my bi-side that's been dormant except in my fantasies. I want to learn how to clean my anus out really good before lubing and receiving. Thanks for the advice.
Dude, you may have said it, but many others are wondering too. Thanks for asking.

[roy m cox]

mmm got to love a good Enema i have had coffee Enema's and that helps me get to sleep tho if you guy's really want a good use the shower hose i have dun this many times and it works so good "dammit" think ill go and do one now :tong:

"erfs" just don't turn on the water to hard and do this slow the frist time you'll love it ;)

[abennyb]

Careful with what you put up your anus.

1. Anything that disappears beyond your grip us usually lost forever. Your next trip will be to the ER at the nearest hospital for the doctor to fish the object out. "The release muscle" only extends about two inches in. Anything inside that is "locked in place". No squeezing in the world can make it come out.

2. Careful with just any enema. Using plain water is a VERY BAD idea. Our body contains electrolytes, necessary for proper nerve functioning. Aggressive water douches of your anus can SERIOUSLY deplete your body. the proper way is to go to Walmart, spend ~ $ 1.50 on an enema. Follow the instructions to a tee:

First have a "shit".

Wet the tip of the enama bottle with a bit of lubricant, get down on your knees, ass in the air and insert the tip all the way. Hold the bottle up and squeeze out as much as you can (don't worry if there is a little left)

Then stay in the face down, chin on the floor position, ass in the air for as long as you can. You will feel and unbelievably strong urge do defecate within 2 - 15 minutes. Just lie face down and wait for the feeling "to hit". Don't "go" too soon.

After that release you will be clean. No need to redo the enema again. You may have a little liquid "shit" in the next five minutes, after that you are absolutely clean inside for several hours.

Use your finger to put lubricant in and lubricate the "incoming dick" to the max. - There seems to be no good way to pre-deposit lubricant inside your ass. Even putting almost a tube in there makes no difference, the dick will just push the bulk of the lubricant ahead of it, giving you a slight liquid release later.

Enjoy your being fucked - it is wonderful to watch the guy working away on top you you.

[mikey3000]

Um, another question por favour? What tempature should the water be? Room tempature? Body tempature? Warmer? Just in case, you know, anyone else has that question too. :)

[roy m cox]

Um, another question por favour? What tempature should the water be? Room tempature? Body tempature? Warmer? Just in case, you know, anyone else has that question too. :)

well i like it worm not to hot it helps lose in up the hard stuff to if your have a bad time shiting to :)

[NEPHX]

I swear we've had this thread recently and I posted this same info (on douching)

General Things to consider:

1. Lube (water or silicon) with silicon, you don't need much & its doesn't get sticky. Most suggest water-based but perhaps before all the newer condom-safe silicon lubes came out... Use LUBE but not too much - remember, what goes up, must come down....

2. Try a small dildo and work up to maybe a bit bigger on your own.

3. Read a book...(see below)

4. Get your Hepatitis A/B vaccine combo vaccine (set of three shots)!

5. Condoms

6. Find a patient & considerate partner




Careful with what you put up your anus.
2. Careful with just any enema. Using plain water is a VERY BAD idea.


The appropriate term is actually "anal douching" (see Morin's book listed below).

Actually, water is recommended by doctors and health experts. Using an enema solution is not recommended . "Enema" solutions can irritate the lining of the rectum especially if used regularly and before anal intercourse. Not by Dr. Morin or any of the foremost sexual information sources on the web or books. If you find some MEDICAL reference from 1990's forward recommending anything otherwise, I'd be surprised.

One source of the anal douching recommendations and information (and there are many and many discussions on sexual information sites answered by medical doctors) is from what is considered the authoritative book on the topic (male & female): "Anal Pleasure & Health" by Jack Morin, PH.D., Down There Press 1998.
Page 76-77 ".... Enemas containing harsh chemicals can be irritants, creating even more discomfort..." ".... While it's smart to stay away from chemical enemas, using plain water enemas solely for the purpose of cleaning the anus and lower rectum is harmless."

Morin goes on to suggest four types including:

1. Fleet which comes in a plastic bottle... and to empty out the unnecessary chemical solution and use warm water and it can be used over and over.

2 get a rubber bulb-shaped "ear syringe.
("Both methods will introduce a relatively small amount of water into the lower rectum. For many people, though it's just the right amount.")

3. A rubber bag with a hose "....For those who want to introduce water farther in to the rectum

4. "...Products that can be permanently installed between the water supply and the shower head.... "

For some things, I'd really recommend taking the advice of or at least checking information with a medical doctor or a book writing on the topic that is considered appropriate and written again, by a doctor.... as opposed to health recommendations (such as douching) from online sites. While well-meaning, often they are incorrect and given by a layman not a medical person or sexologist. Seriously!

There are health sites on the web

Sexuality Forum www.askisadora.com has resource links

SexualHealth.com: www.sexualhealth.com/channel/view_sub/sexuality-education/anal-sex/ this site has answers from doctors

There are other books but I'll stick with Dr. Morin for now.
:bigrin: