what would change if you could do it again...

[mrplayfuluk]

So many people are unsatisfied with their first adult 'bi' experience, so what would you change if you had the chance to do it all again?

[Doggie_Wood]

I wouldn't change a damn thing! What I have done and have not done has gotten me exactly where I am right now and I am just ducky with that.
If I weren't where I am now, then I wouldn't be here writting this post and might not have had the honor and pleasure of meeting those I have met.

Just my :2cents:

Doggie :doggie:

[Doggiestyle]

:bigrin: Yes Mr. Play Fuluk, that's what I would do. Over and over and over and over and over again and again and again and again, only a little more often. :love: A sort of "make up for the lost time" type of thing. Ya know?

My biggest problem is finding volunteers to help me. :tong:

Just my :2cents: thought. Your friend, :doggie:

[jem_is_bi]

I have not had a bi experience (man and woman and me).
I have not had very many different male or female partners.
I have never been dissapointed by any male-male experience.
I have always enjoyed all my male-female experiences as well.
I really love male-male oral sex.

[elian]

Agree w/Dogwood - while my experiences may not have been "perfect" each one gives valuable lessons.

Did I mention that I believe professional pornography creates an unrealistic stereotype of what sex is "supposed" to be?

If you don't go into things with too many preconceived expectations of how it OUGHT to be then it's a lot harder to be disappointed.

-E

[Realist]

I agree Elian. I was just talking to a young fellow, who thinks he knows all about relationships and sex from watching videos.

Apparently, it's not too uncommon for others to think that way, too. A lady I know says her husband's idea of how sex should be, came from watching porn and his inability to accept that those things are fantasies, has destroyed their marriage.

I too, don't have much to change about my sexual history........except, I would really have liked to get rid of the guilt, that was generated by my super conservative up-bringing. I wish that I hadn't listened, when younger, to those who didn't know anything about loving, relationships, or sexuality.

[mikey3000]

My first bi (man on man) experience was totally magical !!! The only thing I would have changed was being able to say good bye and thank you the way I would have liked. After three years, not being able to say that really hurt. :(

[thatcher29]

If there was anything I would change from my first man-on-man, it would have been not to be so nervous. But I had the good luck to be with a very patient man who was willing to give me time. After that, it was great. It felt like the most natural thing in the world.

[ready5858]

I would of changed two things, not being so drunk and not waiting so long to do it again. If if if how many time have we all said that!! lol. It seams now that I crave it more and more but finding that right person is harder as well.

[DareMe]

I actually enjoyed my experience way back when... I would only change the fact that I want more of it !

DM

;)

[fredtyg]

I'm with some of the others: The only thing I regret was that I didn't acknowledge how much I enjoyed it so I could of pursued it more. Along that same line- pretty much the same thing, I guess- is I wished I'd been honest with myself way back in my teens that I was bi/homo and learned to be happy with it the way I am now.

I missed out on too many experiences by trying to hide the homo side of myself. One of my biggest regrets in life.

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

I wouldnt have changed a thing, except wishing that the couple that I had, hadnt moved away. :( I had a bi encounter when I was much younger, and it was diffeerent circumsrtances...I wasnt adult then.
But I loved my first adult encounter and wouldnt change it at all..:}
Smiling Cat

[darkeyes]

Not 2 much cos it was excitin an luffly... cept for the fact that neitha of us reely had a clue wot we wer doin.. an wot we did wosn dun wiv 2 much expertise or finesse.. jus kinda.. fumbled.. but we got ther in end an that wos parta the fun...jus clumsily yet carefully explorin.. wos betta than me 1st experience wiv a boy ne way.. tee hee :bigrin::tong: