Do you like to watch? (if so read this) [Archive]

pelokwin

Jan 3, 2010, 10:50 AM

Hi all.
I have been talking with a member here about getting together, he is new to being with a man and I am no expert myself. I am married and my wife is also bi. You could define us as swingers because we will allow each other to be with others.
Anyway, the gentleman in question has a fantasy about being in front of a group. At first I did not give it much thought, I am much more of a voyeur then an exhibitionists, but after thinking about it the thought has been gaining more and more appeal with me.
My wife has already said she would love to watch us, but not only is she just one person and I think a group would be much more erotic, but also the idea of people I don't really know watching us is what is getting me all excited.
My idea goes like this, after we meet, if we click and if we feel comfortable with each other to be in front of others, I want to set up a night and place for him and me to mess around in front of some folks. I would prefer couples, MM, FF, MF, or even MMF/FFM, as long as if you feel the need (and I hope you will, cause if you don't that means we are the most "un"sexy people in the world) to enjoy yourself you will have someone to be with. I would like some woman. The idea of woman watching us turns me on more then men and the idea of a bunch guys just sitting around masterbating while we go at it or whatever just does not do it for me, no offence.
Are you a man or woman?
Do you like to watch or be watched?
Couple or single?
What is your take on my idea?
Would you join us if all goes as planed?(South Jersey area)

pelokwin

Jan 3, 2010, 12:05 PM

The other guy said I could name him so if you want to see his profile go here (http://main.bisexual.com/forum/member.php?u=95458)
Pelo:bigrin:

Bisexual Explorer

Jan 3, 2010, 1:50 PM

In my few couple experiences, I love to watch the man and woman go at it and really, really get turned on when the woman watches me with her man especially when she takes charge! Taking part in a party - orgy? - with lots of bi men and women is a favorite fanatasy. But so far, only a fantasy.
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biblissful

Jan 3, 2010, 7:09 PM

I love to watch, sometimes when we three(friend) get together, I love watching my husband with my friend. It is a real turn on for me.

mikey3000

Jan 3, 2010, 8:48 PM

I think you guys are very brave. My wife and I have watched a live gay sex show and found it very erotic. Might be something I would like to try one day. LOL! Best of luck and be sure to report back the results!!!

BareHunter45

Jan 3, 2010, 10:04 PM

Like you, I enjoy it when a woman watches. My wife knows and approves although she is fine with it, it does not turn her on. I would be willing to come and watch as a member of the audience and will bring the wife if she is interested. I know she'd love to join in.

Bill

Hi all.
I have been talking with a member here about getting together, he is new to being with a man and I am no expert myself. I am married and my wife is also bi. You could define us as swingers because we will allow each other to be with others.
Anyway, the gentleman in question has a fantasy about being in front of a group. At first I did not give it much thought, I am much more of a voyeur then an exhibitionists, but after thinking about it the thought has been gaining more and more appeal with me.
My wife has already said she would love to watch us, but not only is she just one person and I think a group would be much more erotic, but also the idea of people I don't really know watching us is what is getting me all excited.
My idea goes like this, after we meet, if we click and if we feel comfortable with each other to be in front of others, I want to set up a night and place for him and me to mess around in front of some folks. I would prefer couples, MM, FF, MF, or even MMF/FFM, as long as if you feel the need (and I hope you will, cause if you don't that means we are the most "un"sexy people in the world) to enjoy yourself you will have someone to be with. I would like some woman. The idea of woman watching us turns me on more then men and the idea of a bunch guys just sitting around masterbating while we go at it or whatever just does not do it for me, no offence.
Are you a man or woman?
Do you like to watch or be watched?
Couple or single?
What is your take on my idea?
Would you join us if all goes as planed?(South Jersey area)

pelokwin

Jan 6, 2010, 10:19 AM

So it seems that this thread got a lot of votes and views but not much in the way of replies. I thought there would be more.:(
As it goes I have one cpl. 100%, 1 cpl maybe, me, him and my wife. I am gonna give this thread a bit more time then I am taking out an ad.........

ken-bi

Jan 6, 2010, 12:00 PM

pelokwin

Jan 6, 2010, 12:10 PM

I had one really good group thing a couple of years ago, it was three men and two women. only the girls did any same sex play but it was a bond that for four of us has still lasted. I know what you mean and yea I wish to have that"closeness" again.
I do think this event, that at this point has got me to a point where I have to make it happen, will be one of our best experiences.
Pelo

csreef

Jan 6, 2010, 3:51 PM

As you've read in past posts, I've gone to numerous Swingers Parties, and one rule always was No Watching....

One time I was trying to hook up with this lovely lady (on the fold out sofa of the Hotel room) with about 10 pairs of eyes on us...Needless to say I had some preformance anxiety, until we moved to a more private location..

pelokwin

Jan 6, 2010, 5:26 PM

One time I was in a five-some, and there where a few folks just sitting around and having conversation. It was a we started having an orgy in a very large tent and folks just popped in to say high and went whoa, naked people,type of thing, every once in a while I would notice but we(the naked people) were not at all bothered, but I also was not turned on. I can see where you are coming from, I would not want to be trying to have an intimate moment and be "the show" at the same time.
Our idea is to have me and pabicur being intimate for a few couples and some singles to watch. Some folks may decide to partake in some fondling on their own, and that's way cool but I would not put this event in the "swinger party" cat.

Giggles100

Jan 6, 2010, 5:40 PM

Well the last threesome I had there were (difficulties down there ;)) so I dunno what I'd do in a group orgy :eek:. I suspect I'd be fine although I think I'd probably end up eyeing one person up and doing stuff with them alone :three:.

FredinSJ

Jan 6, 2010, 10:07 PM

Do you like to watch? (if so COME TO PELO'S PARTY)
Hey Pelo,
You said--

Are you a man or woman? BOTH
Do you like to watch or be watched? WATCH MOVIES SO FAR
Couple or single? COUPLE
What is your take on my idea? GREAT AMONG A SMALL GROUP
Would you join us if all goes as planed?(South Jersey area) YES

-FredinSJ and P. ---message me!

pelokwin

Jan 6, 2010, 10:19 PM

pabicur27

Jan 7, 2010, 1:03 AM

As I am going to be one of the participants in this venture, I will say that one of my biggest fantasies is exhibitionism, being nude in front of others/posing/masturbating for them, and having sex with a man in front of others. Yes, I am a MM virgin, so anything that happens will be my first time.

Ushanki

Jan 7, 2010, 2:23 AM

I cannot do it for real, (history). But my good Lord, if you both agree (!) goddamit, enjoy your bodies.

dkw181

Jan 7, 2010, 9:11 AM

Hi Pelokwin & Pabicur,
I would love to be part of your fantasy. I have been in this type of setting before and you are very wright-- (IT IS A WONDERFUL TURN ON).

19biman61

Jan 7, 2010, 3:27 PM

I would love to be part of this. I'm from South Jersey too.

lolguy

Jan 7, 2010, 8:20 PM

I fuckin' love to watch but the only thing better being watched and knowing it so you go a little (ok, a lot) over the top. Now that's good stuff:bigrin:

pabicur27

Jan 8, 2010, 7:40 PM

Just to throw this out there, it is OK with Pelokwin if others at the party want to fool around with/have sex with me. Come make my deflowering a night to remember.

curiousnlooking83

Jan 9, 2010, 12:07 PM

Sign me up too.

hedothug

Jan 9, 2010, 11:50 PM

For my birthday last year I went to Hedo II and have a week-end with a Male and Female couple both bi...It was awesome...we spent the entire week-end making love with each other. We have been in constant touch since then. Their secret is that they only play with a third party in each others presence...NO CHEATING is their thing.

ken-bi

Jan 10, 2010, 12:04 AM

There thing sounds like their healthy thing. Its good for them, and you!!

Jade Pecker

Jan 10, 2010, 3:48 PM

Sounds like fun! I'd love to cum to your party, but I live in nashville. I see a woman on a regular basis...we're both bi. I like all sorts of sex; she is more traditional. ie she gets to play, but the man better be a good boy.....I'm tryingto figure out if I can get more action playing it her way, or forging ahead with teh swinging lifestyle. I see a bi swcpl every couple of months, though. Yes, folks, for me QUANTITY MATTERS! I need action, and plenty of it. Unfortunately, I do not have the body to be a porn actor.
-R:three:

djones

Jan 10, 2010, 6:28 PM

It sounds like a very interesting evening. I have been in a group situation, though it was strictly straight.

As for watching - it would be my first time just watching - though if other participation naturally occurs - you may find me in the mix !

I would love to attend, but geography may prevent that. I would also love to bring a date, but that may not happen either - hope i would still be welcome !

the sacred night

Jan 10, 2010, 8:58 PM

I would love to go to an event like that if it were happening closer to me, but NJ is really far.

ghytifrdnr

Jan 11, 2010, 3:35 AM

As I write this, the votes are 10 to 1 cast by men. I'd find it interesting to see the results differentiated by men and women.

pelokwin

Jan 11, 2010, 7:00 AM

As I write this, the votes are 10 to 1 cast by men. I'd find it interesting to see the results differentiated by men and women.
You know I thought of that about 1 day after I put that poll up,:disgust: my bad. Maybe I will set up another poll and thread, but get a better view of what woman and men like.
pelo

mikey3000

Jan 11, 2010, 4:06 PM

I participate in group activities with regular friends, all men, but with no audience. And I absolutely love it. With an audience? Hmmm...:eek:

cliffml

Jan 11, 2010, 5:50 PM

I would participate in a group if they were all men and only men were watching, that would be a complete turn-on for me.

ErosUrge

Jan 13, 2010, 4:32 AM

I have had a few group sexual experiences with more than four.

I find that group participation (watching and, being watched) brought out a liberation, as well as a unique connective feeling with the whole group.
It is a undescribable embracing of our human sexuality (bisexuality.)

Its been quite a while and my soul is searching for that "group" love again.

:2cents::bibounce::male::female::bibounce::grouphu g:

Interestingly, I find that ken-bi and I have a whole lot in common. I remember prior to ever having a group experience being at first reluctant and shocked to know that people participated in group situations. My first experience with it was all male. I went from being a voyeur to finally allowing myself to step through that threshold to experience what I'd been watching. At first I was very nervous. But as I tuned in to the incredible sensations of having several guys touching me in the most sensual and erotic way, something from deep within was released. As I became aroused and intoxicated with the multitude of sexual feelings in those moments, I no longer feared anything in terms of who was watching. In fact, I became turned on even more as the sexual energy came to life in those moments and I was totally consumed by it. This is still how it happens whether several or just one person. And even though several people might be watching or just one or two, once I'm "in the zone" and though I know I'm being watched, I no longer care. If you ever have such an experience, you'll realize that once you're really into it you both are excited about being watched but at the same time don't care whether being watched or not....to me, that moment is quite beautiful because I know deep down inside that I am fully engaged and from that after it's all over, I am quite satisfied and satiated....for a while at least.
I have also been in group situations with both sexes....the energy is a bit different but still quite wonderful.....

pelokwin

Jan 13, 2010, 8:22 AM

Thank you all for your input, voting, and desire to attend our lil thing.
As of this post, my wife is still sick and for me, she has to attend. So to all who want in, this will happen but she has to be well first so please be patient. (i am looking at Feb.)
Between myself and pabicur27 we will contact you folks who want to come and make arrangements.
Thank you all again,
Pelokwin

meekrazy2or3

Jan 17, 2010, 9:25 PM

I would love to watch and be watched by both men and women, while I enjoyed playing with both sexes

BiJoe696

Jan 28, 2010, 4:50 PM

Are you a man or woman? Male
Do you like to watch or be watched? Very much so
Couple or single? Couple
What is your take on my idea? Sounds like great fun
Would you join us if all goes as planed? Not in NJ, just too far away. Lets plan one for midwest

Hiding bi choice

Jun 13, 2010, 6:21 PM

okay, now I have to take that as my cue. There are many people who are waiting on that true bi party. Well I will be planning one in Central Jersey for the beginning of July. I have a thread running to see if people would attend. Look here http://main.bisexual.com/forum/showthread.php?t=9542 now I am ready to plan it.

Would love to have your help!!!

Realist

Jun 14, 2010, 10:01 AM

My attempt to be a part of a group having sex, didn't work out as I'd anticipated. I was invited by a friend to be part of a (for the lack of a better word) a gang-bang for his GF. For her birthday, she asked him to invite 4, or 5 of his friends to have sex with her and for them to maintain a steady stream of lovers until she was exhausted. As soon as one guy orgasmed, he'd get up and let the next guy begin. She did not want a break during the whole thing.

I was 23 at the time, in good shape and thought the party was going to be an ultimate experience. No one was over 25; the girl was 19, I think.

We all got in the bedroom and watched as the two partners began. It was exciting to see them up close and personal, like that.

When her BF finished the next fellow entered her....he was so excited that he only lasted about 2 minutes!

I was the third person, but when it was my turn, I quickly became too flaccid to participate, so I moved to the rear of the line.

Again, I got aroused as she took another, and another. She was in a sexual frenzy, very noisy, energetic, and obviously enjoying the attention....and was having one orgasm after another.

She was very voluptuous and pretty; it was a very scintillating scene to watch! Amazingly, one chubby guy with a short cock was making her scream with pleasure! She got on top and rode him for several minutes...he apparently was hitting the right spots. Everyone was laughing and egging him on...

I had been in a poly relationship with a married couple before this and had no problems responding, but this time, for some reason, I just could not perform as a member of the chain.

Although, we were all friends and very open with each other, I never did have sex with her. Each time it became my turn, although I was very erect while watching, the "plumbing" just failed when I was called up.

The thought of my friends watching me, was too much, I guess.

bzeman62

Jul 10, 2010, 10:42 AM

I am sort of like you I love to watched by women. I also enjoy being watched by men but it is definitely a trun onto know that a woman is watching me. I love masterbating infront of and for women. it is a great turn on for me.

Hi all.
I have been talking with a member here about getting together, he is new to being with a man and I am no expert myself. I am married and my wife is also bi. You could define us as swingers because we will allow each other to be with others.
Anyway, the gentleman in question has a fantasy about being in front of a group. At first I did not give it much thought, I am much more of a voyeur then an exhibitionists, but after thinking about it the thought has been gaining more and more appeal with me.
My wife has already said she would love to watch us, but not only is she just one person and I think a group would be much more erotic, but also the idea of people I don't really know watching us is what is getting me all excited.
My idea goes like this, after we meet, if we click and if we feel comfortable with each other to be in front of others, I want to set up a night and place for him and me to mess around in front of some folks. I would prefer couples, MM, FF, MF, or even MMF/FFM, as long as if you feel the need (and I hope you will, cause if you don't that means we are the most "un"sexy people in the world) to enjoy yourself you will have someone to be with. I would like some woman. The idea of woman watching us turns me on more then men and the idea of a bunch guys just sitting around masterbating while we go at it or whatever just does not do it for me, no offence.
Are you a man or woman?
Do you like to watch or be watched?
Couple or single?
What is your take on my idea?
Would you join us if all goes as planed?(South Jersey area)

TanjaDe_Profund

Jul 10, 2010, 7:25 PM

I am female, would like to watch boys.

Jackofalltrades

Jul 10, 2010, 9:20 PM

Too bad you are not in the east coast states of the US:(
Pelo(AKA Jack)

pabicur27

Jul 11, 2010, 10:47 AM

Tanja - I would love for you to watch me and Jack.

Jackofalltrades

Jul 11, 2010, 12:48 PM

ME TOO!!:bigrin:
any chance you coming over to this side of the pond?:smilies15
I'll spring for a pizza

pabicur27

Nov 12, 2010, 6:52 PM

For a variety of reasons, Jackofalltrades (Pelo) and I were not able to have our get together.

I would still like to get together with others for a group event. Pelo is OK with this. If you want to have a party (singles and couples welcome!), post here and we'll try to set something up in the Southern NJ area.

innaminka

Nov 12, 2010, 6:58 PM

I'm a woman
I voted.
I wouldn't go.

The group thing has just never been my thing.

pabicur27

Nov 12, 2010, 7:34 PM

Just FYI - I am still a MM virgin (I know sad). So, if this event happens, you'd be able to witness/participate in my deflowering!

tristancir

Nov 12, 2010, 10:36 PM

I would totally go to something like this. I was just telling my friend Rick earlier that I'd like to sit back and watch a few guys masturbate for my viewing pleasure. Watching two guys have sex would be awesome.

BTW, I have seen guys go at it before. It was hot then. I'm sure it will be hot now.

NW6942

Nov 13, 2010, 2:51 AM

I was in an all guy orgy once... fucking hot! everyone knew each other and it was AWESOME! sign me up 24-7!

curiousnlooking83

Nov 13, 2010, 7:34 AM

Yes! If this happens in NJ or PA, sign me up!

by~his~side

Nov 13, 2010, 9:01 AM

I'll go if curious drives me. ;)

curiousnlooking83

Nov 13, 2010, 9:09 AM

Hi by!!!! You're on - there's always room for three!

welickit

Nov 13, 2010, 12:04 PM

Oddly you left out an option to register a vote as a couple??:2cents:

stungun

Nov 14, 2010, 12:17 AM

I like to watch and be watched! An audience is an exciting thing.

Plumhead2

Nov 14, 2010, 11:13 AM

I once videotaped a couple having sex. They contracted with me to do so. I have to say it was very hot! I found it hard to concentrate on the camera work, although being the professional that I am, I did a yeoman's job if I do say so myself!!! LOL.

It was the first time that I had been in a room with other people having sex. Since I was filming, I was able to move in close to them and they didn't mind. I have to say, with the close-ups, and the moaning, and the smells of sex, and the squishy sounds, all these things were incredibly arousing.

The couple said that it was very hot to have sex with another person watching and filming. They said that it was very liberating as if they were just throwing away society's constraints and just being how they wanted to be.

I would love to film a group of people having sex. If that Jersey group ever wanted someone to document the fun, let me know. It'd be on the house! LOL

BiloxiM4Fun

Nov 14, 2010, 8:57 PM

I would go in a fucking cock beat.

In fact I have gone to Club Relate in Tampa and masturbated on a woman's tits in front of 21 other people.

Wish I could have been with them when Reel Sex did a special about them.

What a fucking turn on to watch and be watched...it makes my cock STAY HARD!!!

bityme

Nov 15, 2010, 2:11 AM

It was very interesting reading the posts on this thread.

I guess I have to consider myself very lucky, indeed.

I am a member for several bi/bi-friendly groups that have regular parties. Generally small parties of 15 to 25 people. Most often the parties take place in one room, sometimes two rooms. Between 3 different groups, I usually attend 3 to 6 parties a month.

For me it is a turn-on to be in a room with that number of people having sex, sometimes watching, sometimes participating. It is quite normal for 2 individuals to start out and other join in as the action gets hotter. To be one of those who start things out and then feel an extra pair of hands, or a mouth, or other body parts stimulating you is thrilling, especially when you know that everyone can see each other.

The best times have been the occasions when I have been between the legs of a couple where the lady is on top, reverse cowboy, and I been giving both of them oral pleasure at the same time while someone else is sucking me and another is penetrating me with either the real thing or a strap-on. Those all bi, totally inclusive parties are the best.

Being on the west coast, I won't be able to make a New Jersey party, but I hope you have a chance to pull it off. If it works out, you will start planning the next one almost immediately.

romer

Nov 15, 2010, 11:15 PM

once, years past, enjoyed two couples switch action. very enjoyable.
I did not mind the other couple and my partner did not mind either. It was the first time for us.

Couple years ago answered 3 ads by couples wanting to be videoed in action. I did all three couples, one at a time, but had no contact myself. All 3 events were in North Jersey. I had to pay travel, tolls and gas. I did not charge. One guy asked me to pay half the motel bill. I did not answer any more ads.

Now I'll just commit to watching and doing clean up........or head service.
Of course, no charge.
Cheers