Bi Guys and Dominant Woman

[fred fencesitter]

Is it common for bi men to be attracted to dominant women? I once chatted with a woman who was into bi men and she claimed that almost all the ones she knew enjoyed being submissive to a woman. I've also noted that a lot of fem-dom scenes seem to have some bisexual element, if only in fantasy.

[drwilsontx]

I consider myself a bi-guy, with women I am dominant, with guys submissive.. to a point

[Kermit Jagger]

For me, being controlled by a dominant woman is about the best thing going. Being controlled by a dominant woman puts me in touch with my femininity and makes me want to do everything I can to bring her pleasure and enjoyment. If bringing her pleasure and enjoyment means serving her male partner so much the better.

Dominant men are also good especially when they have me wear feminine underwear. But dominant women are much better.

Kermit

[Apleasureseeker]

Interesting thread. I've known a couple of submissive women and they definitely had issues with bisexuality, usually conflicted.

Surrendering control is a great way to expereince something without taking responsibility for wanting it. As long as it's consentual, I think it's a great way to explore. I've had girls use me as an excuse to get with a girl, so they can express lesbian curiousity and still say, I only did it for my boyfriend (after the 43 time, that excuse wears thin, though).

It's even t harder for a guy to express his bi-curiousity. Surrendering your body & cock to a woman's control means you don't have to say I wanted it. you cna just say "I vass only following orders!" Again, after the 43 time, it wears a little thin.

[darkeyes]

Is it common for bi men to be attracted to dominant women? I once chatted with a woman who was into bi men and she claimed that almost all the ones she knew enjoyed being submissive to a woman. I've also noted that a lot of fem-dom scenes seem to have some bisexual element, if only in fantasy.

Am sure it is pretty common.. an its not jus restricted 2 bi men.. str8 men also luff bein sub.. an gays.. me don call men "lesser mortals" for no reason.. (tee hee.. jus lil jest..:bigrin:).. is more predominant 'mongst bi-men?? Actually am unable 2 ansa that for sure cos in days wen me had owt 2 do sexually wiv men didn hav many relationships knowinly wiv bi guys.. but wenya talk 2 'em then lots do seem 2 like bein sub 2 women. Not all tho by ne means..

Now ifyas talkin bout bisexual scenes in porn.. hun for God's sakes..don take that as a snapshot a real life..asya sed.. its fantasy.. wots depicted goes on sure... an worse.. or betta dependin on ya viewpoint.. but it cant b taken as real life... an so doubt ya question can b ansad in ne way by referrin 2 porn..

[Giggles100]

I dunno about domination..... but I do like tomboys :bigrin:. Tomboys can be less submissive than your average straight girl can. I find alot more tomboys are Bi too..... well that's my experience. So perhaps I'm not big on taking the lead....... although make me horny and I'l turn tricks :bigrin:.

I love tomboys....... oh god I love each and every one of you :). I don't care if your a lesbian either I'm not fickle like straight guys I just like ya cos ya cool! I love short/spiky hair on a girl too...... yummie!

Did I mention I love tomboys?

With guys I don't like domination I prefer things to be even :bigrin:.

[mikey3000]

I'm in senior management at work, the only (and dominant) male at home, so I need another guy be equal with. To let me know that I have worth without having any expectations of me. That I have value as a man, as an individual. Acceptance from a peer. I turn to instant mush in his arms and give up total control. And it feels just so amazing. Sometimes I need being taken care of too. And when, while being dominant, he acts like the perfect gentleman that he is, I'm as good as done. He teaches me of affection without ownership and I respect him deeply for that. Plus he knows I'm married to an amazing woman, has met my wife, and that they get along famously is such a huge plus. I'm way more blessed than I actually deserve in this life.

[djones]

I don't seek dominant women, but I like strong women who know what they want !

I like to have an even partnership with women - I don't mind taking control, but I don't dominate either. I don't think giving up control to woman is necessarily submissive - more a matter of trust. All out domination (on the part of either) is not a turn on.

[the sacred night]

I hope so, because I love to dominate men and I love bi men! Now that you mention it, both of the guys I've dated had bi tendencies and were submissive...

[WickedOnyx]

I consider myself a bi-guy, with women I am dominant, with guys submissive.. to a point

Same :bipride:

[mikey3000]

ditto.

[chub-bi]

The hottest MFM I've ever experienced was when the women took the dominant role and instructed her boys what she wanted done to her and to each other.
Just having a woman whispering the word cocksucker in my ear while I'm sucking a cock makes me about as horny as I get.
Not sure if that makes me submissive or if just means I like women who know what they like.

[jamiehue]

tomboys tomgirls tom toms anything goes xept tom cruse yeech!

[Agoofball]

When a woman or a man takes control in the sexual arena with me it is an absolute turn on and really gets me to want to please that lover! Domination in other aspects is a relationship killer for me.... outside the bedroom (or wherever the mood hits us) I am only satisfied with a 51/50 split..... and tomboys are an ABSOLUTE turn on!!:tong:

[biguy3113]

I must totally agree! When my wife takes control and directs me to follow her command and then gets on top of me and gives it to me good, there is nothing better the completion that follows!

[jem_is_bi]

I like to fantasize about being dominated, mostly by other males, but I would not enjoy it for real.
In all actual sexual experiences, I am the most dominant one to both to males and females.
I enjoy, switching roles on occasion, but could never tolerate always being dominated.

[centillini]

I have a fantasy of having a lady dominate me, and having me suck my first cock and fuck the guy, would be hot to please her.

[_Joe_]

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