Two part Query :)

[DuckiesDarling]

First, what was the most bizarre request you have made to a partner and what was the response.

(By bizarre I mean outside the mainstream ideals of a relationship of two partners, could be BDSM, could be adding third or other things to the party, could be a lot of things I just chose bizarre cause that sounded better than abnormal. To me as long as it's consenual I don't consider things abnormal but...)


Second, what request do you most want to make to your partner that you don't dare for fear of rejection and end of partnership.

[judayxlo]

1. I'm into BDSM...and I've let my boyfriend know that. He was willing to have me tie him up, and tie me up. He was pretty ok with it...except he didn't like it when I tortured him for too long O-o;; Tortured as in...teasing him sexually...I guess. Hahaha..

2. I want to be tied up, blindfolded, and be forced to do things. O_O;;;

[just4mefc]

First, what was the most bizarre request you have made to a partner and what was the response.

(By bizarre I mean outside the mainstream ideals of a relationship of two partners, could be BDSM, could be adding third or other things to the party, could be a lot of things I just chose bizarre cause that sounded better than abnormal. To me as long as it's consenual I don't consider things abnormal but...)


Second, what request do you most want to make to your partner that you don't dare for fear of rejection and end of partnership.

I once got a lover to let me fake like I was asleep in the corner of a room while she fucked her ex husband. The room was lit just enough for me to see everything. It was so hot. We both loved it. My first real voyeur experience

happy to report there is nothing I fear to ask of my wife. She simply is perfect for me. No fear what so ever. :bigrin:

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

Just who you callin queery??? Uhm, huh, what? uhmmm sorry...wrong tense. *Snicker*

The oddest thing I had ever done was asked a lover if a Bi-curious young friend could watch as I gave my sweetie a long, hot, sensual, oral pleasuring. I told him I wanted to show/teach young friend how its done. Lover didnt mind and young one was torn between being scared to death, and so excited that he couldnt stand it. lol Without making this sound like one of my erotic writings, I eventually had young one get verry close as I licked and mouth stroked slowly. I took his hand and had him place it at the base of lover's cock and hold it gently whilst I continued. He kept looking at lover to guage his reaction, and was shocked to see that lover enjoyed it immensely. I asked him if he was ready for his first taste, and he quickly said 'NO! Not, not yet"
But he didnt mind holding that hard cock for me, and eventually began stroking when lover asked him to, as I continued sucking...
Long story short, he Did join me in licking and sucking lover, and when it got time for lover to explode I told him, "Take it" and he did.
He was a good student and quick learner...lol
It wasnt all that bizarre, but it was damn fun. It was just new and bizarre to Him..:bigrin:
Bad Cat

[citystyleguy]

First, what was the most bizarre request you have made to a partner and what was the response.

(By bizarre I mean outside the mainstream ideals of a relationship of two partners, could be BDSM, could be adding third or other things to the party, could be a lot of things I just chose bizarre cause that sounded better than abnormal. To me as long as it's consenual I don't consider things abnormal but...)

at the time, for what seemed bizarre, if that can even be the best description, was the inclusion of a girlfriend and her gf/lover in a four-way with my bf/lover; the ladies upped the ante with the request to include BD on the both of us. some scary demands, but in your twenties who the hell cares!:cool:

Second, what request do you most want to make to your partner that you don't dare for fear of rejection and end of partnership.

as i am sans partner, or at least not at that level yet, i am not able to offer up any such fear, but i will keep you posted!:rolleyes:

[Kiowa_Pacer]

Greetings;

The most bizarre thing I have ever done was to ask my wife if she would be interested in attending a Sex Club when we moved here to the Pacific Northwest. I brought up the idea after talking to someone who shall remain unnamed at the moment. Listening to her tell me of various adventures got me to thinking and I was very curious. Kit knew before our 3rd date that I was bisexual, and I had not had any relations with a man in Years.

We talked about it in bed one night and the more we talked, the more turned on we both got. The idea of her watching me with another man excited her to no end. She said yes readily. We decided that next morning that we were not going to tell our friend, but we were just going to pop in at the event. We were both terrified; but also immensely excited. When we got there, we asked about our friend and was escorted to a darkened room that had several mattresses on the floor. At the edge of this one mattress was our friend, in all of her naked glory, performing oral better than a porn star, and she had two male partners.

I hushed Kit and we sat down to watch her, and was amazed. The more Kit watched- the hornier she became. I was not prepared to see her(our friend) slurping down a member with such abandon, then take on the other one at the same time. By the time she looked up and saw us, she had a man under mouth and one coming in for a canine attack. My wife was beside herself in passion. Friend busted up laughing, introduced us to her lovers, and stated, "Ya'll come on in"

That was the beginning of our Swinging adventures. That was the most bizarre thing I have asked my wife to do...outside of take a ride on a sybian machine. The most bizarre thing she asked Me to do, was ride it with the male attachment affixed to it in front of a group of ladies.
I will stop here before I embarrass myself further.
Ki.

[djones]

Well, I'm not very kinky, so my most "bizarre request" was just letting the woman I am now dating know that I like my ass played with - and she happily broke out her toys !

As for request I want to make, I wasn't afraid to ask (nothing ventured, nothing gained) was for a three way with another guy. Unfortunately, she doesn't want to share me with anyone, but it certainly didn't end our relationship to ask.

[void()]

Saran wrap and lover, most odd.

Not really afraid of wife's answer, just sort of accepting. And it won't end us.