jbb44
Jul 27, 2010, 6:24 PM
Hi, Iam 45 and maried for over 20 years male male Virgin wondering what is the way to find a man to recive oral and give oral. Is it wrong to ask for someone else to be there Male of female they no just a little scared. I would probaly prefer the east coast Im shy. Any thoughts? should I tell them where I would be incase they wanted to see me first
tnttogether
Jul 27, 2010, 7:56 PM
heres an idea, if you want someone else to be there while this happens, invite your wife along. theres so many people who come out and say they are bi or curious, but always seem to want the guys wife/partner there as part of it.
would that be ok with you?
we dont play with married men as a couple, either i get to play m2m married or single, or we play with couples, as a couple. we just dont think its fair to the guy or gal to be sitting at home or being alone because the other wants to "explore" some curiosities.
my question to you is, if your willing to try it out with a woman present, why not just m2m? its the same except nobodys there to watch. it may be a gay activity, but doesnt mean your gay if you still prefer women. just m2m fun. one of the things ive learned from here about part of being bisexual, it doesnt matter what you find when you reach down someones pants, your happy either way.
i realized i was definitely bi after my wife and i met a few couples and actually got to try it out, i knew i was bi, i may not be into kissing and some other things, but other than that i like the body contact, i personally like to give and receive oral, and receive anal sex. ill pretty much go with the flow either way, those are just my preferences.
and after i did get the experiences, and my wife realizing that she wasnt bi, but was cool with me being bi, she allows me to play m2m without her.
i ALWAYS tell her who i talk to or meet up with, so there are no secrets.
so, whats wrong with exploring your curiosities just m2m?