Advice

[mn freak]

My wife has given me the OK to play alone. Recently, I have met a woman thru other friends that has a crush on me (the feeling is mutual).

So, how do I handle this? I won't see her for a few days, when I do see her, I want to lay down a few rules. What would be some good rules? This is my first time getting this close to being with someone else who is not my wife.

any :2cents: would help.

Thanks

[darkeyes]

My wife has given me the OK to play alone. Recently, I have met a woman thru other friends that has a crush on me (the feeling is mutual).

So, how do I handle this? I won't see her for a few days, when I do see her, I want to lay down a few rules. What would be some good rules? This is my first time getting this close to being with someone else who is not my wife.

any :2cents: would help.

Thanks

Rules? What kind of rules? For who? U? Her? If rules there be, shouldnt she have some say whether it is rules for you, her or the dog?

[littlerayofsunshine]

Messing around with friends (friends of friends) could always been an iffy thing.

I would never suggest playing around with friends that way. If something were to go not so Kosher, then it would always come back to you and your wife might not handle that so well.

Of course that it only my opinion (Some feel women shouldn't have one when it comes to bisexual male issues)

But the rules should be made between you and your wife, and then understood and accepted by who ever you play with. Sexual play rules can be so vast that its really hard to just give you anything other than a couple of suggestions or things to ponder.

1. How often can play take place, time constraints, things that are 'off limits'

2. What kind of partner you can play with.

3. What would make your wife uncomfortable.

ect.ect.

good luck to you.

[mn freak]

Rules? What kind of rules? For who? U? Her? If rules there be, shouldnt she have some say whether it is rules for you, her or the dog?


She will have a say.

[MarieDelta]

I would tend to agree with liray and would add that it is always good to use safer sex (http://www.aids.org/factsheets/151-safer-sex-guidelines.html) measures when you are playing.

[mn freak]

Messing around with friends (friends of friends) could always been an iffy thing.

I would never suggest playing around with friends that way. If something were to go not so Kosher, then it would always come back to you and your wife might not handle that so well.

Of course that it only my opinion (Some feel women shouldn't have one when it comes to bisexual male issues)

But the rules should be made between you and your wife, and then understood and accepted by who ever you play with. Sexual play rules can be so vast that its really hard to just give you anything other than a couple of suggestions or things to ponder.

1. How often can play take place, time constraints, things that are 'off limits'

2. What kind of partner you can play with.

3. What would make your wife uncomfortable.

ect.ect.

good luck to you.



Thank you. My wife has 1000% final say on if or when our relationship (between me & my friend) will end. That will be rule #1.

It's happened sooooo fast that the only thing we've done is kiss, that was last night. She is very shy & I want her to move at her own comfortable pace. I will or would never push her into anything she would not want to do.

[Doggie_Wood]

Rules? What kind of rules? For who? U? Her? If rules there be, shouldnt she have some say whether it is rules for you, her or the dog?


Fran - don't bring me in the middle (or end) of this! :tong:

Doggie :doggie:

[darkeyes]

Fran - don't bring me in the middle (or end) of this! :tong:

Doggie :doggie:

Now zif me wud do that 2 u Doggie me luffly.. every1 knos that tryin 2 impose rules on an ole flea bag like u is imposs...:tong:;)