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[FONT=verdana][SIZE=3]I'm one of those "weird" guys in that I don't concern myself over whether or not someone is "good" at sucking my dick. I'm just very appreciative of anyone who will suck my dick and whether I cum or not. I've always run into guys who wanna get into some cock sucking... but then launch into a spiel about they don't think they're good enough at it or their dick ain't big enough for someone to want to blow them... and it makes me ask them, "What difference does any of that make?"

And it confuses them because they think it does make a difference. I'll ask them, "Are you willing to do the best you can?" and if they are, well, isn't that all that really matters? What... because you don't have a dick hanging down to your ankles you somehow believe that your dick ain't worth sucking? What gave you that idea and why do you believe it?

I've had guys who think like this suck my dick, make me cum, and then get all weird about whether or not I liked it. I've said, "Did you make me cum and did you hear me complaining about anything?" And they've said that, yes, I did cum and, no, I wasn't complaining.

"Well, would you say that you were, in fact, good enough?" I'd ask - and you should see the look on their face. Likewise, a guy with a "small cock" will get his dick sucked by me, bust a nut... then start bugging over whether or not I had fun doing it.[/SIZE][/FONT]

Even today, I'm still in the closet about my bisexuality. However, that doesn't mean no one ever figured it out. I used to live in a 4-person shared house, and I never brought a guy to the house, only a few girls I was dating. The one time I was dating a guy, he lived quite a ways away. He stopped by the place for a surprise visit when no one else was home, but I knew my roommates would eventually be coming home, so, I took him back to his car. It was pretty dark out, so I gave him a blowjob until he came in my mouth. It didn't take any longer than 10 minutes or so, but he was happy. He drove back home, and I went back inside.

One of my roommates was home already, and he was sitting on the sofa watching TV. I said a quick hello, and was going upstairs to my room, when he said, "Dude, that must have been one fucking awesome blowjob."

I kind of froze, but I was blushing like crazy all of a sudden. All I said was, "What?"

He said, "I saw you going into that car with that guy while walking home. That was like, 5 minutes ago? Shit, I could use a blowjob like that right about now."

I told him I didn't know what he was talking about, and went to my room. I was a little worried, because I didn't want anyone to know I was bisexual. A few moments later, my roommate knocked on the door, asking to come in. I opened the door.

"Look," he said, "I won't tell anyone... I just want a blowjob. I'm horny as fuck. Btw, you still have some cum on your face."

I swept my hand on my face, and found the cum he was talking about. "Okay," I said, and let him come inside the room. Once the door closed behind him, he put his hands on my shoulders and gently pushed me onto my knees. I unbuckled his belt, unbuttoned and unzipped his pants, and pulled down his clothes. He was super hung. Like, 8 inches, and girthy.

He said, "No girl has ever deepthroated me, but I want you to try."

So, I did. He didn't last 5 minutes... which was great, because his cock was too huge, and it hurt my throat. He came all over my face, hair, and neck. He then hit his cock on my mouth, so I opened my mouth and sucked him some more.

"God," he said, "You fucking rock at that. Be my little bitch on the side, and you can have more of that."

So, for about six months, we were roommates, and I'd see him bringing girls over, and I'd be doing the same, but almost every day we were both home, he'd come to my room, or I'd go to his, and suck his cock. We never did anything else. He was the first guy with a huge cock, and I spent plenty of days learning to deepthroat his massive cock.

When he found a girl to go steady with, his girl would go home, and he'd stop by my room and pull his dick out. Sometimes, I'd get a taste of his girlfriend's pussy. It was weird, but I always gave him a blowjob whenever he wanted one. He kept saying he wished his girlfriend could suck his cock like I could, and that she never wants to swallow his cum, or have him give her a facial. So, he always came in my mouth, or on my face.

When he moved out to move in with his girlfriend, it was the last time we saw each other. Neither of us wanted anyone else knowing.

[FONT=verdana][SIZE=3]Why suck cock? It feels good to it. Makes the other guy a happy camper, too, which in turn makes your ego happy. It's a skill and sexual art form that many try to learn and master because, um, the more you learn and work toward your mastery, the more fun it is. You learn that any cock can be sucked - big and fat, small and skinny, with foreskin or without, and the color of the dick being sucked really doesn't matter a whole lot... even though a lot of cock suckers do make a big deal out of these things and in ways that, sometimes, makes them miss out on the many dicks that can be sucked.

To each his own, huh? Over my lifetime, I have fucked guys and been fucked by them... a lot and sometimes more than most women I know. That's been both good and bad but my favorite thing to do of all times is to suck cock and even that's second to eating pussy.

And cock sucking is something I think all bi guys should learn, master, and do as a matter of course.[/SIZE][/FONT]

[FONT=verdana][SIZE=3]Sucking a dick can strangely make you feel good and bad at the same time. You "hear" that voice in your head screaming at you and say you shouldn't be doing it - and you know you shouldn't - but damned if it doesn't make you feel good having that dick in your mouth and feeling and hearing him moaning and groaning with pleasure and practically begging you to not stop and keep going.

But damned if it doesn't make you feel... girly, too. Why? Because only girls are supposed to suck dick, right? Um, nope! We can get into all that "who does it better" crap but the bottom line is that guys can suck dick and they can love the shit out of sucking dick because, if nothing else, it really does feel good to have a dick in your mouth and if you've acquired the taste, so much the better; there's something... deliciously nasty about swallowing another guy's sperm that's hard to put into words. Yeah, some guys would rather not swallow it but spitting it out is proper etiquette or one can, if the want to, get a facial or it's okay to unload the spunk any place other than their mouth. Whatever works, right?

Yeah... guys worry about catching something nasty and I'm here to tell you that it can happen if the other guy somehow managed to catch something. Guys are squeamish about swallowing it and fearful that by doing so, they're gonna catch something when, in fact, the moment that dick slipped past your lips, you already put yourself - and him - at risk and, no, not gonna get into the science behind this at this time.[/SIZE][/FONT]

[FONT=verdana][SIZE=3]At first, a guy will certainly be of a mind that they wouldn't like it or, really, they're not sure if they're gonna like it since they do, for the most part, like it when a woman is sucking their dick. A lot of guys are so unsure about this that they actually believe having a guy blow them is very different when, in fact, the only real difference is who's sucking their dick... but, at the same time, having a guy blow you is one thing.

You being the one sucking the dick is something else. Some guys are just naturals at it while others have to learn how to do it and like it... but I don't know of too many guys who have sucked a dick for the first time and didn't have a sense that doing it felt strangely normal and for reasons they can't explain.

Or, classically, "That wasn't as bad as I thought it would be!" Well, um, that's because it isn't bad but, yeah, some guys do manage to fuck this up when they have their cock in your mouth. The sperm thing? Yeah... there's a reason why it's said it's an acquired taste but it's probably more of a mental acquisition since, you know, sperm is only supposed to go somewhere in some babe and, sure, it's okay to shoot it into her mouth... and the thought of some guy shooting it into yours is, well, unimaginable... even thought we know it happens and it's even an expectation, to be honest.[/SIZE][/FONT]

[FONT=verdana][SIZE=3]I get asked this question a lot and probably because there are a lot of people who don't believe that a guy should and could have a reason to do what women do and more so since there are women - somewhere - who live to suck cock.

I get asked and I tell them that, for one, if there's something that fascinates the shit out of us, it's wondering what it feels like to do it and more so when we've watched women sucking us and, of course, see dicks being sucked in porn. Another thing is that of all the things guys can do, this is usually the first thing a guy learns about; I call it an "entry level" thing and while a lot of guys' first experience is sometimes "mutual masturbation" or even getting screwed, the one nearly constant thing is cock sucking.

It looks easy... but for the first time? Eh, not so much since one has to overcome some shit that's telling them - screaming at them - "Don't do it!" Some guys do and they hate it... many, many more do it... and now they can't stop wanting to do it and, yeah, comparatively speaking, it's easier than getting a hard dick into one's butt.

I've said that it can be done anywhere, doesn't usually take a long time to do it, and has minimal preparation before the fact other than washing between your legs... if you can in that time and place. Otherwise, the dicks come out, go into a mouth - or both - and they get licked and sucked until nuts get busted and swallowing is always optional.[/SIZE][/FONT]

[FONT=verdana][SIZE=3]About a month or so ago, I ran into a man at the mailbox who has having a problem getting his box opened so I helped him with it; the postal worker had jammed the mail in and got it tangled up with the lock, preventing it from easily turning so it could be opened. No biggie although a piece of mail got kinda torn up. As I worked to open his mailbox, he told me about himself: Recently widowed, sold the house they lived in because it was too big for one person. The man was white, six years older than myself, new to the complex and when he said he wanted to show his appreciation for my assistance by giving me a blowjob - something he had learned about when his late wife first got sick with cancer - I didn't say no to him, both out of compassion and, um, I was kinda horny anyway.

We went back to his place and got to it; he sucked my dick and he got his sucked. Didn't matter whether he was "good" at it or not and while he had what I'd call a nice dick, that didn't matter to me one bit although, before we got started, he was under the impression that I would think his size would matter. He even said, "I might be too old for you..." and I said, "A lot of people are older than I am - so what?" The only thing that mattered is that he wanted to do this and I was game for it. We sucked each other, made each other cum and we both swallowed without giving it a second thought.

And that's the only thing that mattered. I was pleased and he was, I thought, more than pleased. He said, "I've never sucked a black cock before... and I thought it would be different."

"Why?" I asked him.

"Well, I've heard some stuff," he said as I gently used my hand to see if I could get him up again.

All I said to that was, "Hmm, okay..." And what do you know? He got it up again (so did I) and we made each other soft once more. For me, it wasn't a big deal but, then again, I've experienced the diversity but for him? I think he had his eyes opened a bit more since he said, "I think I'm going to be sucking more different cocks now..."

What really mattered? The desire. The need for both the release and the human contact. He was my type: Healthy, clean, of legal age, and not my kind of an asshole. We've gotten together a few more times since that first time and he's quite an interesting guy, as it turns out. He still says that he didn't think I'd be agreeable because he's older, white, and all that... and I keep telling him that none of that matters to me. He wants and needs to suck cock and I'm more than happy to have him do it and to suck his, which he didn't think I'd want to since he doesn't have a long, thick cock.

"You have one. I can suck it. What else is needed?" I asked him - then sucked him dry again.

He just shrugged. And I get it. We're all kinda like that and in ways that prevents us from experiencing the diversity that exists within our bisexual box.

So my questions to you all - and I don't expect anyone to answer - is why aren't you experiencing the diversity? What's holding you back from stepping outside of whatever preferences you have?[/SIZE][/FONT]

[FONT=verdana][SIZE=3]When a guy tells me he doesn't want to have sex with me and starts pointing out how different I may be from that which he prefers, wow. Seriously, dude? Let me see if I understand this. I want to suck your dick. You want your dick sucked... and you mean to tell me that we can't spend some time doing that because I'm Black? Too old? Dick not big enough? Hairy? Not hairy enough? Not built like Mr. Universe?

When a guy who's two years older than I am tells me that I'm too young for him, hmm, is that a problem? I think it is but the problem in embracing and rejoicing in the diversity is that when one has preferences, they should never be questioned and many guys get pretty bent out of shape when their preferences get... questioned or otherwise offended because it's their right to want what they want and the way they want it.

While totally disregarding the fact that any guy can suck a dick. Any guy can get it and keep it up long enough to slide it into your ass and, likewise, there probably isn't an ass you couldn't get your dick into. Or a mouth. Or a pair of hands to pull on your pud until you pop your cork. Can't find a guy to do anything with? It's probably because you're not of a mind to explore the diversity more than an actually lack of guys who like dick. Any guy who isn't your type is disqualified out of hand. I don't have a type and because I've experienced the diversity, there's really only one type of guy I like: He's clean, healthy, of legal age to have sex... and he's not my idea of an asshole.

And I continue to wonder why it seems like I'm the only one who has such an approach to sex with, well, anyone.[/SIZE][/FONT]