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  1. Why are people so screwed up (in general) in my area?

    I have been a few different places in the country over the course of my life, and even though the Seattle area is my home and where I prefer to live, it seems that people here (not ALL people, just enough to make it noticeable) are really messed up, more so then I have seen anywhere else I have been.

    I have heard the funny rumors and comments from people who don't live here, but have been in the area before... "Seattle area people are rude", "Northerners are meaner then southerners", "They call it Southern Hospitality for a reason", etc. but I have always tried to keep my mind in the middle and not group any particular "people" into this sort of stereotyping.

    Everyone has had bad relationships of some kind or another, either friends, lovers, or other. I am no exception and I wont try to say that this is the first time I have had a relationship of some kind go wrong. But this last deal started wrong, continued wrong, and ended wrong, and I was unable to do anything about it until it was so messed up I had no choice but to walk away, losing out in a very big way, and placing myself in a situation that is now kicking my butt and making me almost regret leaving the situation I was in...

    I do not want to gain sympathy, nor any other form of "poor me" response from this. It is more of a rant, but at the same time, a search for others who feel the same, or can assure me it really is larger then Seattle, PNW, "Northerners", etc. I know it is my fault for being in the position I am in now, as it was being in and staying in the position I was in prior to now. I am just so mad about it all, I had to write it down someplace.

    I was in a relationship with someone for about 5 years. About 4 years in, we ran into financial issues and we were forced to move. Given a credit issue, it was not going to be easy to find some place to move to easily and we turned to the idea of roommates/shared living instead of attempting to hurry into a place of our own, for the time being.

    My best friend of many, many years was recently rekindling a relationship with a significant other, after years of being apart, but never being completely out of each other's picture, due to a child between them. Hearing of my situation, a discussion between them led to the offer of a very large room with it's own bathroom, and private entrance/exit (only needed to share kitchen), for a reasonable amount, in a decent area. Being as we were rather pressed for time with limited options, we took them up on the offer.

    It was great for several months, but then things started to go downhill within the house. My best friend and the significant other ended up fighting and splitting up again about six months into my moving in, leaving me & my significant other in the awkward situation of living with my best friends now second-time-around ex- and the child. It was a bit weird but it was overlooked as we tried to make things work as normally as we could, and just when it seemed that things were going to be fine, my own relationship failed and my ex- moved out. Now I was living, as roommates, with my best friend's ex- and kid, on my own. Awkward didn't even begin to cut it.

    I was starting a new job, working from home over the internet, in a tech support position I had really wanted to do, at the time my ex- left, and was not about to lose the job over all of this, so I was somewhat forced to stay where I was. I reluctantly did so, and just worked my job, stayed in my room as much as I could, and limited the amount of contact I had with my friend's ex-, just to be safe.

    My job required a high level of professional background noises and behavior on my end of the line as they did not wish to have customers knowing that we work from home, if it was at all possible to avoid.

    My roommate however, (and fully knowing this well in advance and agreeing to conditions) loved to be excessively loud in dealing with the child and any issues of his, or between them. Being that our rooms were right next to each other and shared a hallway into the main section of the house, any fighting or otherwise loud noises (slamming doors at all hours, yelling, cussing, music, animals that bark very loud, etc) coming from their room or outside of their door, were just as loud, if not louder, in my room.

    After the second write up for background noise from work, being on my last warning, and having heard the replayed calls as proof that the reason for write ups was due to the roommate and the child fighting and such, I approached the roommate and explained that if it happens again, I lose my job. If I lose my job, I cant pay rent. If I cant pay rent, we all know where that goes. My roommate, being very worried about losing the place and all, understood and for almost two months, managed to keep things well under control. But it eventually slipped back to hell and, I ended up losing my job for a third write up for excessive and unprofessional background noise.

    My roommate went nuts, so to speak, and even though I was able to make the rent still via unemployment at the time, began saying and doing things to get me to want to leave. I noticed and started looking for situations but nothing was available.

    Finally a couple months ago, I had reached a point where I couldnt handle it after my roommate cost me yet a second job (I wont explain this one, but it falls on irresponsibility and lies on the roommates part), and packed all that I could and definitely needed to keep for myself and my small dog, and left. Leaving everything else I owned behind and explaining that my roommate could sell the remaining items to pay for any rent I might owe still, etc. Technically my roommate will come out well ahead as the value of the items I left far exceeds the amount of any remaining money I owed, and my roommate was very good at selling items via online sales apps and craigslist/ebay.

    So, I am living in between homes, kind of bouncing and looking for something stable to regain footing for myself, with only the option of moving to Arizona in a month, if things dont pan out in Bremerton, where I would rather live, and have lost a large portion of my property and life itself due to a situation I could not foresee, but could not find means to leave soon enough either.

    Furthermore, I continue to get messages from the roommate, as does my best friend, that are mean, lacking any responsibility for the actions on their end, and some even threatening to a degree, as if the issues that cost me my job(s), and ultimately made me leave a lot of my property behind and make myself and my dog mainly homeless, were my fault, not theirs.

    How can people be so.... screwed up... in this area? I have never come across this type of situation anywhere else, so I have no way to verify that it happens elsewhere, but with the types of people I have met in other places, it sure does seem that this area has a much higher risk of meeting people who are totally messed up and will do all they can to mess up others.

    Frustrating, irritating, and even scary.
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  6. LGTB Sexuality vs Religion: My own rant

    I got tired of hearing the rants from different religious people I know or am forced to associate with regarding the LGBT community, sexuality preferences, and overall lifestyle and decided to write a rant here, and then send them all the link using a "tinyurl" link so they wont know where they are going until they get here, just to be extra devious.

    First, I am going to explain that, for the simplification of this post, I am going to cluster the full aspect of Gay, Lesbian, Bi-Sexual, and Transgender into "LGBT Community" and condense the entire group of definitions into the LGBT acronym, possibly referring to the entire community as "it" occasionally. This is not to offend, limit, or by any means group any one or group of people into a subset that may not define them. It is simply to make this a easy to write as I can because I have a feeling it might draw out a bit. Sorry in advance if anything I write comes off as the wrong way to say it, or appears in anyway to appear uneducated in regards to the matter itself, the groups and individuals it may pertain to, nor the entire community of gay, lesbian, bi-sexual, and transgender people in the world. You are all considered family to me and I would never disrespect or discredit anyone of you. That said:

    I call this "The REAL Fear Factor Theory"
    People do not understand something. As this something grows around them and becomes more and more "mainstream", accepted, overlooked, and "normal", they find within history (laws, books, other groups who may have previously fought the same or similar causes, etc.), something to back them, and even manipulate it in some way to make it work for their specific reasoning. They spread this "protection" of theirs to all who will listen, who also do not understand and thus fear, who will join them in "protecting" the world from this fear, until their own group of people is large enough to be a voice against the voice of the issue they fear. Then they take their "protection" plan to those that can help institute it as a rule, law, or otherwise controlling system. If their idea does not stand up on it's own, they return to the masses to enlarge their own group and then return and try again, and so on until the idea becomes the law, or the feared issue becomes protected by the law. If the fearful group loses, it becomes an underground system... rebel, terrorist, criminal, etc. If the fearful group wins their case, the feared issue becomes an underground system... hidden, secret society, criminal, etc.

    What people are still not getting is that every group that has ever been fought against, either by religion or any other group, still exists. No group has successfully eliminated any other group. And it is written throughout history, including within the Bible, as proof. The closest historical references to complete elimination of any group of people might very well be the Templar Knights, and possibly the Illuminati, but as history has shown, time and time again, just because you dont hear about or from them any longer, just because no one will publicly claim to be a member, does not, by any means, that group does not exist. Throughout history, groups have gone underground, quiet, hidden, & secret to keep from further persecution & harm by those that sought to eliminate the entire existence of the group. It would be arrogant and severely uneducated of any attacking group to assume they had in fact found, and eliminated every single member of an enemy group.

    I call this "The LGBT Sexuality Loop Hole Within Religion"
    LGBT has been here since the dawn of time, whichever way you believe that time happened... Biblical, scientific, evolutionary, or otherwise. We can read in the Bible, early on, about LGBT related events, places, people. We are taught throughout our years in school, by science and nature, that nature contains many aspects of LGBT that are not human as well. Plant life, animals, microscopic organisms... all have their own groups within their species that are LGBT in sexuality. I do not remember at any point, a science teacher telling me that any one of these groups of organisms CHOOSES to fall into an LGBT classification. Organisms that change sex, organisms that have no sex, and even organisms that are sexual with either gender within their species, even when the opposite gender is present... was it a choice? Or did the laws of nature encode into their DNA with this trait... this instinct... this internal feeling about themselves? I dont remember any news regarding an uprising against the transgendering red frogs. Are there protests against homosexual domesticated sheep? Everyone loves the Bottle-nose Dolphin, right? Do we all love the gay AND lesbian bottle-nose dolphins, or just the straight ones? Are there any straight ones? Maybe the ones that procreate are bi-sexual? Are the Bi-dolphins still bad? Homosexual dwarf chimpanzees? Lesbian Albatross? Bi-sexual Japanese Macaques & Fruit Flies? How about the many different forms of sea life from fish to snail that are coming out of the closet to admit their LGBT sexuality? Why are the groups, especially the religious groups, not fighting against these sick groups that dont seem to care how the straight members of their own species feel about their sexual acts? It cant possibly be because that Noah guy in the Bible put two of each of these creatures on his giant boat to save all species from the flood that destroyed the Earth, right? I mean, he put at LEAST two people on the boat too, from what I remember of the story. And how the heck did Noah, who was definitely not any sort of animal expert, know for sure which was male and female of each species? Its hard to tell on some domestic pets if they are male or female, let alone creatures like fish and birds... maybe he guessed wrong? Maybe the LGBT DNA was first introduced in those 40 days being trapped on a boat with no member of the opposite sex in so many of these species? Would that mean that religion is the cause of LGBT? So is religion fighting against itself about LGBT related matters? Do they know this??? Maybe someone should ask them?

    LGBT is a DNA encoded aspect of nature. It is one of millions of traits that may be introduced into any one or any thing that is given life on Earth. There is no "cause", there is no "cure" and there is no "turning it off" or "choosing". It's not hereditary. It's not contagious. It's not an abomination, or a mistake, or a birth defect, or a mental imbalance. It's simply nature changing it up a bit, allowing for limitless possibilities within the realm of all things nature controls.

    Since we are on the subject of religion, let's toss some rants that way that are documented in the actual writings these religions themselves put their faith in...

    I call this "The Straightest Family Tree"

    So everyone knows the story... God created the Earth, then created man, and from man, he created woman, Adam and Eve (We wont get into the Lilith thing here, just sticking to the Sunday School kid's version). Adam and Eve got in trouble in the Garden of Eden and God told them to get the heck out and go do their own thing. So they started popping out kids.. right? First were the brother's Cain and Able. Cain kills Abel, then Seth is born. Along the way, they gave birth to two other sons and 2 daughters. God only created one more person, and did so by means of immaculate conception through Mary much later in the story line. So, If God created only two people, 1 male, and 1 female, and those two people procreated to bring in a total of 5 sons and 2 daughters. This would mean the entire population on Earth after the birth of their youngest child would have been 9, had it not been for Abel's murder. Mom, Dad, 5 sons, and 2 daughters....

    Catching the point? God didn't whip up any more humans from leaves and dust and whatever, and yanked out no further ribs from anyone. So all other people at this point are Adam & Eve's children. And there were only a total of 7, 6 if we kill of Abel. 9 people. All related to each other. No other people on the entire planet. Let's just say for a moment that the Bible made it easy to follow the timeline and there were no other people created by any means, human or higher power, until after Adam and Eve die. Now you have 6 kids on Earth. 4 brothers, 2 sisters. Blood related children.

    If you haven't guessed the puzzle yet, I will go ahead and clue you in. There were a WHOLE lot more people born in the Bible after the 7 children of Adam and Eve, yet the only people besides Adam and Eve were their children... which means that somehow the two daughters of Adam and Eve got pregnant at some point, and considering how long people supposedly lived back then, more like several points. Who got them pregnant? Not God. He only performed the immaculate thing one time, much later in the game. That only leaves the sons of Adam and Eve as capable of providing sperm to the eggs the daughters were producing.

    Is incest not against the rules within the Bible? Could it be that through the act of incest between blood related brothers and sisters, generations of children were born, and within the genetics of these children created by 2 people with a 100% DNA match, DNA code was modified by nature to attempt to control birth defects and other problems that can arise from a child born from blood related parents? In that modified DNA code, could there have been sequences written that would eventually create same-sex attraction, and the feeling that a person might be one sex, but born into another sex's body, or with too many of the opposite sex's genes and hormones to allow the developing fetus to grow it's own sexual organs and instead growing the organs of the opposite sex?
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