Ok, so that's a good double entrendre right there. I created this group as a place for any out married bi guys to chat, make some friends, and meet like-minded dudes.
hi, I'm out... well to my wife at least and any guys i may get with... family doesn't know though.
Initially I was not going to join this group because I thought to myself no I am not out I am still in the closet, but then I thought about it. I have told my wife that I fantasize about having sex with men,masturbate to gay porn and that I identify as being bisexual. So I guess technically I am out, but I don't feel that way. I still don't feel that I can openly and easily discuss my sexuality with my wife or anyone else for that matter.
You all raise a great point - I think 'out' is a state of mind. I'm out to my family and friends and some coworkers, but not to my inlaws. They're 80+ years old with a marginal grasp of English, broaching the topic hardly seems worth the trouble it would cause! So, let's just say that you're as out as you want to be, as opposed to being completely closeted.
Well said... Although my family does have a solid command of the english language, it's just not worth the trouble to come out to them. In my mind I'd still be the same person that they've always known, but they would look at me differently none the less. Being out to my wife has been a godsend however, and it feels like a weight has been lifted off of my shoulders. I can talk to her openly about my bisexuality. It has led to some pretty interesting conversations as a matter of fact. So yeah, I'm as out as I want to be at this point, but still out.
Wow Axlton were a lot a like lol I'm only out to my wife and whom ever I hook up with and in my mind that the only people who need to know. Telling my family would just cause more problems than its worth and I would no longer have any kind of relationship with my father so it just best I keep it between my wife and I.
Hello from Northern California.
Syracuse, NY. Out to my wife ( who detests the idea!) And a FEW selected bi friends.
Out to my wife and have listed myself as BI on all of the swinger site we are on. She loves to share a dick with me.
Totally out to wife who enjoys MMF nights passion
i'm out to my wife and friends that I played with.
Hi all, I am out to my wife and she is very accepting of it as I am accepting of her having a boyfriend
Came out to mywife while we were dating. She enjoys 3 way(MMF) 2 cocks are better than 1 for her and both enjoy sharing a cock
I came out to my wife as I discovered this side of myself. I listed as bi curious, then bi, on swing sites we had been on... Eventually, had my first experience, with the wife involved, but she doesn't care for it (or swinging) at this time. I have also come out to my gay brother and his partner... but don't feel the desire to deal with other siblings or my mother on this subject. My kids - maybe someday, but not yet.
Out to wife I told her when I was a kid I would play girls and discreetly guys but lately been thinking a lot about guys again. I told her I would never cheat on her but would like to have a 3some with her and another guy but so far she won't go for it. Any ideas on getting her to?
