Curious and scared mature guy here in NM. Have found very few guys on line from NM and when I do find one they are either long ways off or don't show up for coffee meet. I could never have any kind of sex with a man with out knowing what or who I am going to do this with. Then there are the gay guys and some of them are way more experienced and want more now that I am ready for. A nice patient bi guy that is also married would be a good match I think. Update April 2019 still looking in New Mexico.
