living in NC foothills, it's extremely difficult to find willing guys. everyone, eventually, turns in to a ghost. one or two emails & they disappear. total waste of time. pete
Same thing where I am in MT. I can find quick hook-ups when I visit bigger cities, but I keep those encounters to mutual masterbation, or might let the guy blow me. The risk is too great to go all out with a stranger who just wants quick cock or ass. Looking for an ongoing sexual friendship, but that is so hard to find.