dzamzi
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Thank you for posting your message about sex outside your marriage. I have in the past met with men for sex, and in most cases have enjoyed it. As you say, it is part of my being, and I still have strong desires to be with a man again. But I have not for the past six or so years, not for lack of opportunity, but rather because I found it was affecting how I interacted with my wife, and also a fear of bringing something home with me. I do have a man I like very much, but have never met other than through emails (he was on silverdaddies) and have considered trying to meet him. The thought of having sex with him is quite erotic. But I just don't know if I will or not. At any rate, I enjoyed reading your post and the responses to it.