Would it be more fun for you as a bi person if your partner was also bi?

I am curious. If you are part of a serious relationship and/or marriage with a person of the opposite sex, if that person knows you are bi and has acted on it with the same gender (and/or a trans person) in the past (before or since you began your current relationship), would it make you happier if your partner was also bisexual? Would you want to (and/or have you) your partner to see you being intimate with other people (of the same sex) and/or vice versa (and/or with other folk of the opposite sex (wife with other men, husband with other women), especially if you were the more submissive during the encounter (bein the "bottom" or receiving the cock wherever as opposed to being the "top" or being dominant? Or would you (both) prefer to do stuff like this separately (whether you (or your partner) was doing it) and/or not say anything about the details to the other(as long as you are (both) playing safe (like a "don't ask/don't tell" kind of thing)? I have been to "parties" that included same sex and/or trans activity with my wife in the past, but we never did any kind of bi, threesome and/or same-sex activity together or in front of each other (she, like I at most times, likes to be very private in her intimate activities (though she may have let one guy feel her up and/or eat her out at one or two points...I cannot say for I did not see (all of) such happen, plus I was also engaged elsewhere at the time).

I am Bi. I don't have the same mindset as a gay guy. I don't think men are attractive. I think cocks are attractive. I think pussies are attractive. Sucking on a nice pussy can be hot! Same with a cock. I'm not looking for love with a guy. I am looking for sex.

My wife and I are a bi couple so she doesn't mind that I have a small circle of regulars to play with. I always see to it that she is well-cared for sexually.

Oh hell yes it would be more fun. I have had bi girlfriends in the past, I loved to watch her with another woman and she would share her with me. I also let a couple of my buddies fuck her in mfm three ways but that was before I discovered bi own bi side so it was all about pleasing her.

Let's see... did it make me happier? Yes and no; she hid her bisexuality from me, kept denying it, got caught cheating with another woman and I had thought that since I had openly admitted my bisexuality to her when we first met, she would have been just as open with me. Once I had to confront her about her... indiscretions, the result was her demanding an open marriage so she could look for what she needed and I agreed with the condition of if she wanted to do this, then I could do it, too. She was totally against that but I told her that the alternative was that I divorce her - and at a time where that would not have benefitted either of us.

We did a lot of things with other people both separately and together and it... worked. Was I happier? Kind of and in that waiting for the other shoe to drop way because way back when I agreed to this, I knew that (a) one day, it was going to get totally fucked up and (b) she would be the one to fuck it up while breaking the rules we had agreed to. Long story short, I was only happy with things as long as she was happy and she wasn't always all that happy.

Yes, I wish my wife was bi and I wish we could’ve sorted out our sexual needs before we built this committed relationship with a child to raise. She’s my partner for life but I just wish she was into inviting others into our bed for some mutual play. Or at least we have 1-2 FWB to meet our extra bi needs. I would LOVE to be assfucked and dominated by a hot stud while she watches or I eat her pussy. To make things equitable, I would open up to her fantasies with outside lovers if she had interest but she does not. MMF or MFF would be great and other fun with trans women would hit the spot. I want to cross dress for hung top, hot man 2 man masculine play, fuck sexy trans women or all of the above and more.

15 years ago when we met, I had no idea that there are people like me living out full and open lives. I long for that kind of freedom, but I love my family too much to abandon it

My spouse thinks boobs are neat, but that is about as far as he goes. He tried being straight, but now a woman would do nothing for him. He wouldn’t be comfortable with inviting one to join us, that’s ok, we do just fine. Our marriage is somewhat open, and we both have to be attracted to anyone that we do invite to join us in bed.

before her health failed we both enjoyed a lot of fun as a bi-couple. sad part is she in no longer active at all