a little scarred....i think i hurt myself with toy need advice

Ok, need some advice, well I got a dildo a couple weeks ago, and its 7 inch long and 4inch thick, I used it twice first time got a couple inch in the second about 5 and a half, the second time I played with it for about 20 minutes, I just finished playing with it a 3rd time, well just stopped playing with it cause I started bleeding, only played for about 5 min took my time and used lube, anyway a drop of blood came out and I freaked and stopped....should I be worried and if not when should i be

if in doubt, see a doctor.......

it sounds like slight tearing of the anal tissue, which is not uncommon if you are inserting toys that are larger than you are used to or ready for..... the same thing can happen with bowel movements.......

Any discomfort, pain etc when you insert the toy ? as that can give you some indication of what may be causing the bleeding.... tho bear in mind, that blood from the anus, may not always be a indication of a issue with the toy, it may be a indication of something else that is affected by the issue of the toy, IE polyps in the anal passage or past scarring of the anal passage from constipation....... either way, if you are in doubt, see a doctor

I would think you got a wake up call and what NOT to insert into your anus. We need to realize that anything inserted into the rectum is actually going into your colon. There is quite the evidence that colo/rectal cancer, and its rise of detection, are proportional to the increase of sexual behaviors concerning anal sex. I have no idea as to why you would want something that is 4 inches in diamater stuffed into your anus, but the bleeding should be a sure indicator that you need to rethink your stratagies on this one. And see a Dr.

I concur. If your fortunate, it could be just hemmoroids, but who can tell for sure.

If the bleeding is not continuous and/or excessive, it most likely is, as LDD suggests, a minor tearing of tissue in the anus. I have experienced this myself on a few occasions... when I first started anal play... tried a toy that was too big for my, uhm, experience level... etc.

If you don't have much experience with toys of that size, it might be better to downsize for a while and work your way up to the larger ones... and never forget: there's no such thing as 'too much lube'.

Stay safe!

People are hilarious! Some posts over here are so funny! hahahaha

4 inches thick? Must be a typo.

they do have anal stuff that is 4" thick...

lol if it is 4 inches no wonder lol go for broke man get a MACK truck and see if it will fit lol

no wonder your ass got tore up man that asshole is not made for something that thick

Hon, thats a bit big for a Newbie to take. Even a couple of my seasoned Boi's cant take my big one like that. I recommend that you start off with something Vastly smaller, and work yourself up. Wait, let me rephrase that..lol Work up to a larger size gradually. Its no Wonder you saw a bit of blood, thats a tender place in here, Sugar. Go slow and easy, and you'll be fine. Down grade a little, Then increase..:}
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Hon, thats a bit big for a Newbie to take. Even a couple of my seasoned Boi's cant take my big one like that. I recommend that you start off with something Vastly smaller, and work yourself up. Wait, let me rephrase that..lol Work up to a larger size gradually. Its no Wonder you saw a bit of blood, thats a tender place in here, Sugar. Go slow and easy, and you'll be fine. Down grade a little, Then increase..:} Cat

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I've never put anything up my ass but my friends who love getting fucked have told me how they can easily take a dildo or actual dick that's 7x4 and that it's not too big. I'm larger than 7x4 and I've met a lot of men and women who can take my dick up their ass or vagina. I had a friend in college who told me how he easily went from putting a few fingers up his ass to a dildo that's 7x4 and he never bled from using a dildo. OP are you sure that you're using enough lube and going slowly?

Ok, I see I need to clarify, I wrapped a tape measure around it the circumference or diameter is a total of 4 inch

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Ok, I see I need to clarify, I wrapped a tape measure around it the circumference or diameter is a total of 4 inch

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That would make the circumference of the dildo 4 inches. I don't put anything up my ass either but my partner does at times, and he said you shouldn't have any issues taking a dildo or hard dick that's 7x4. I'm 8x6 and my partner can easily take me up his ass. I've seen him take cocks of men who are 7.5x5 and he could easily do that. You're going to want to go slower, make sure your fingernails are cut, use lots of lube, finger your ass and take multiple fingers for at least 20-30 mins and then use the dildo. Try different positions with dildo too like riding it, going on your back, on your stomach, or on your side. Anal sex isn't like it is in porn where it's edited and fast. Also some men's asses do bleed at first when they get fucked or shove stuff up there for the first time. You busted your ass cherry! ;)

Yeah but eveyone is different, Dave. Not everyones pysiology is the same. Some folks can take a raiing up there and have no prob, the next person could bleed like a seive. Its all up to what a person's body can accomedate at the time. BBM could graduate up to that size in time if he wants, but thats up to him. Not everyone can handle a Behemoth (The nickname of my strapon dong) on the first go round.
To each their own.
Good luck BBM, and go slow sweetie. You dont want to do damage up in there and desensitize the area..:(
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