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I had posted this as a ?reply? in a thread and got lost in the melee of text.
some of you have regular FWB?s, and hence this question. What do you do when the urge hits and you need to top.
I have seen threads about how a bottom prepares to get fucked.., the warm water douche, the enema etc. someone wrote that it?d take up to an hour to clean.
I assume that steady FWB?s BAREBACK, given that both partners are monogamous.
So when you get the urge, do you use a condom or patiently wait?
A simple cleansing enema takes no where near an entire hour! Not even 10 minutes and maybe 4 passes with the water. You have been badly misinformed!
i do it both ways condoms and bare back
I've only bottomed six or seven times, all with the same partner. Because my buddy, Dave, was a newbie and had never been with another guy in that way, I always allowed him to go bareback. He was kind of insistent on not using condoms, and I'll concede that allowing him to cum inside me makes the act so much more intimate.
Dave and I discovered after our first failed attempt that there's a whole protocol to be followed when prepping for anal penetration; a warm, mildly soapy enema, application of a good quality water based lubricant, stretching with fingers, then more lube inside and outside the anal canal, then insertion of a dildo or butt plug before proceeding to the real thing.
If time permits explore the through cleansing together I know several who have loved it and feel it brought us even closer , of course there are times in the heat of the moment , in a frenzied passionate time we just do it , but knowing that there was no cleansing PLEASE do not act surprised of in shock or disgust if there is some clean up needed , just remember you are with somebody that you "hopefully" care about .
And it does not take long for a good cleansing , it can be done very good , very quickly
I’m versatile and the planning includes a simple cleanup if I’m going to bottom, watching what I eat for a few hours, a simple enema, this of course if I’m going to bottom. As a top I will not fuck a guy without plenty of lube and a rubber, even though I know the guy very well that I’m gonna be fucking. Usually there’s only enough time for one of us to top and we decide ahead of time who gets to do it. I make sure I have rubbers and lube regardless.
When I had a boyfriend, he was always ready for me to top him and I don't ever recall running into a train on the track when topping him; just lube up and fill him full of my dick and cum and no condoms. I never did ask him how he stayed clean and ready...
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Originally Posted by Ken Hadashi
Our prep takes quite a while, probably 30-45 minutes in all, but the more time spent prepping the more successful and pleasant the outcome. With proper stretching, Dave can generally enter me with minimal resistance of discomfort.
When I was younger, I would almost exclusively bottom (whether for oral or anal). At that time, I had a regular FWB who was married. I trusted him and he always insisted on bareback, which was fine with me because I liked it when he would cum inside me or let me swallow when I would give him a blowjob.
Hygiene has always been important to me, so I experimented with various ways to 'clean out' before having sex. For my first enema, I used a 16 ounce water bottle filled with warm soapy water. While it got the job done, I found it was kind of messy and difficult to self-administer. I eventually bought an enema bag, but was hesitant to use it out of fear that my parents or sister might find it or see me carrying it to the bathroom, so I ditched it in our neighbor's trash can one evening.
Then, one day, I got the ultimate order from my mom. She and my sister needed tampons. I was like, "No way, mom. What if one of my friends see me?" She went on to give me the lecture that it was perfectly normal... that all women needed them." She handed me two $20s and told me to go.
Very reluctantly, I threw on my backpack, got on my bike and rode down to the drug store near my house. If any man has ever tried to buy tampons, he would appreciate my dilemma. I had no idea they came in a variety of sizes... then there were ones for heavy flow days, etc. I was at a total loss. But, as I was cruising the hygiene section, I noticed something on the very bottom a shelf. There were several boxes of disposable enema kits with varying sizes of liquid as well as insertion nozzles. And they were very inexpensive. I quickly filed that information away and went outside to call my mom regarding the tampon issue. Once I had the proper instruction, I went back inside to make my purchase. The clerk, an older woman, gave me a smile. "Your mom sent you, didn't she?" I said, "Well, they're not for me." She just laughed and bagged the boxes. I must have been three shades of red, but I rode home and set them on the counter for my mom and sister to find.
"Now, that wasn't so bad, was it?" she asked as I passed her on the stairs. "You can keep the change, you earned it," she added.
The next morning, I got up a bit early. I had received a text overnight from my FWB that he would be available around noon if I was interested. I quickly text him back that I was, but that I had some running around to do. We agreed on a pick-up spot, but he said we would have to use his SUV as his wife and son were home and he had an external audit team at his office, so that location would be off limits. I told him no problem, then I asked what he was interested in? He was pretty blunt and said, "I'd love to fuck, but I won't have much time. A blowjob would be fine." I responded that I would be ready either way.
My parents and sis were sleeping in. I slipped out of the house and rode my bike across town to another drug store where I bought two disposable enema kits, along with a tube of lube. I didn't even make a comment to the cashier as I paid for them in cash. I was back at home before anyone had gotten out of bed. I did two cleansings that morning and no one was any the wiser.
Even though I had sucked him several times, I had only anally bottomed once at that point, but it had resulted in my first hands-free orgasm. I was anxious to repeat it again. He picked me up at our designated spot and then he drove us to a parking lot near a hiking trail that led along the river. His SUV had heavily tinted windows, so after putting up the sun shade in the windshield, we would have total privacy.
After parking, we both climbed into the mid-seat. By that time, I knew the routine. He would unzip his cargo shorts and it was up to me to pull out his cock and begin sucking. Within seconds he was fully hard. It was a ritual that we both particularly enjoyed. Over the course of the next few minutes, he worked his shorts down to his ankles, so that I could massage and suck both his cock and balls. He was hard as a rock and I could sense he was getting close to coming, so I backed off and took a deep breath. "So?" I asked. "Where do you want to cum?" Then he said the magic words... "Why don't you climb up here and turn around. I hope you are ready," he added.
I nodded and mumbled something to the effect that I was clean. I was almost in a trance at that point. I had been waiting for this for a long time. As I stood to remove my shorts, he threw a large beach towel over the seat and I climbed up and assumed the position. I heard him pop the top off of the tube of lube. Then I felt the coldness of the solution as he squirted some along my crack and into my hole. The next thing I felt was the warmth of the head of his cock as he positioned himself behind me. I faintly recall him saying just take a deep breath and relax. With my head and shoulders hanging over the back of the seat, I waited as he worked the head of his cock into my tight rear hole. It was one thing to take a finger, but an 8x7 inch live penis was another.
As he'd done the first time, he was slow and careful, making sure I was comfortable as he went. It seemed like an eternity, but eventually I felt his pelvis fully against my outstretched ass. He began with slow shallow strokes at first. As he did, I reached down and began stroking my own cock. Then I reached down with my other hand and cupped, pulled and squeezed his thick balls. He began fucking me harder and with slightly longer strokes. I was enjoying ever second, as I suspect he was as well because after only a few minutes, I was rewarded with a thick load of cum in my ass. I didn't really feel his ejaculation, but I was aware of the pulse of his cock as he emptied his load into me.
The very surreal part of the whole event was, just after he had finished, a small bus pulled in right next to us, escorted by a park ranger. With his cock still inside me, we both froze as we watched the bus door open and several kids from my school got out. I recognized most of them, then it dawned on me that they were there for a park clean-up. After they and the ranger had made their way onto the trail, my FWB pulled out. I was still kind of frozen into place when I felt another thing against my rear hole. As it turned out, he had brought a large tampon with an applicator, which he proceeded to insert.
"This will keep you from leaking out onto the seat," he said. It felt small compared to his cock, so I didn't think much of it. We both got redressed and began the drive back to close to my house. As we drove, he opened the center console and handed me a couple magazines. "Here," he said. "Tuck these into your shorts and don't let your parents find them. This might be you in a few years." I was kind of puzzled with the statement, but was eager to get home, so all I said was, "Thanks."
After arriving home, I checked the house. My mom and sis had left a message that they had gone shopping and my dad was out golfing with his buddies, so I had the house to myself. I immediately ran upstairs to my room and pulled out the two magazines. They both featured transsexuals being fucked in various positions, and some were getting DP'd. That was enough to send anyone's head spinning, but there were a few of the models who had very large dicks and breasts... one in particular was a small blonde. Since I hadn't cum from the fucking, I immediately pulled out my cock and began masturbating. I came three times that afternoon, and subsequently came more than a hundred times to those images.
Just before everyone got home for the evening, I decided to take as shower. While there, I eventually removed the tampon and to my surprise, there was still a large amount of cum that ran out.
Later that night, I received a text from my friend. He asked how I had liked the magazines? I sent back a message that they had hit the spot!