Got to chatting with a CD the other day, and I was aware it happened, but not really aware. It seems on Grindr, there are aton of CD's and Trans who, well for lack of a better term are hooking.
Of course we don't call it that there, it is a donation. Well, a donation to suck your dick is still selling it.
We got to talking about jobs, and she/he commented how lucky I am, she/he has to sell her body to avoid living on the edge and wodnering if they will eat the next day. My first thought was a touch of anger, I am NOT lucky. I started at the bottom when my old company closed, and went right back to square one working a window as a cashier, I sacraficed, gave things up an dput in extra work. Yeah I run the company now....................but luck was not part of the equation.
Now, this person is less passable than me (And in no way do I pass unless it is adark room), so I asked, why not dress male and apply for jobs. The answer was, they take me as I am or not at all, again, keep in mind this person didnt claim to be transitioning, just cross dressing. They also did not wish to go out in public as a CD because they know the hatred and ridicule they will get.
Maybe I didnt understand, but it came across as I really dont want to work like the rest of you, so I create this issue as an excuse. Personally, I dress and look male for work, I enjoy having new cars and eating out, so, I sacrafice................it floors me someone would rather sell themselves, and struggle and barely get by, over a refusal to conform to an employer for 8 hours a day
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