I am 67 years old and for the last year been having trouble getting an erection. I tried all the pills and even started testosterone shots because of low-t. I can have a orgasm while soft but they are dry or just drops come out. Anybody else have trouble?
Re: Erection and ejaculation problems with aging
I?m 67 and yes I have problems getting it up. I haven?t tried any pills just try to eat a healthy diet and drink water. I still can get it up sometimes but I don?t last as long, I do still cum nicely though. Sometimes I find I cum with a semi hard on.
Like I told my last girlfriend, if I wake up with a hard on we'll use it. If not roll over so I can sleep another hour. At 71 I really don't place a lot of importance on erections. If I want sex be satisfied with bring eaten or blown. My partners satisfaction is more important.
I'm 74 and have been struggling with ED for years! I've tried everything out there and nothing seems to help. I can get half hard and can cum, but no volume. I recently started taking one called Prostathrive and it seems to be helping somewhat. It has reduced the number of times I go to the bathroom during the night. Would love to get a normal hard on as I would love to fuck a young ass!!!
I am only 59 and not on any meds and have time keeping it up! My hardware has became software!
I agree partner satisfaction is more important. One thing I know, my tongue works, mouth open and closed breathing, sucking and swallowing.
Don't worry, be happy!
I can still get hard with Viagra but struggle to stay hard. My Doc put me on Flomax so when I cum either nothing comes out or it's just a dribble. I miss the hard ejaculations and staying hard too. I'm not sure the Flowmax is all that great. I still have to pee in the middle of the night. Is anyone else taking it?
68, all systems are a go ��
63, been taking 2.5mg daily Tadalafil for about 2 years. With the right incentive, you could hang a wet beach towel on my erection.
I'm 65. Sad to say, it's been a few years since I've been with a woman. (Love the wife but she lost all interest years ago.) I occasionally had problems staying hard and a bigger problem with taking forever to cum (and eventually going soft). I took pills if I knew we were going to have sex ahead of time, but it was more a matter of not wanting to worry about than it was about things not working. I find erectile disfunction can be a self-fulling prophesy if you're not careful.
On a related note, I find that being and staying hard is never an issue when I've been with men. I would rate myself as 60% straight, so it's not about liking cock more. I think it's because I don't have to worry about my ability to please a man. I know cock like the palm of my hand :-). As someone else said, my hands and mouth (and occasionally ass) work fine. I never worry about my ability to please a man. For me, not having to worry about it seems to play a big role in not having a problem or needing a pill for insurance.
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I'll be 78 next month. Have had erection problems for years. At times do get somewhat of an erection when getting sucked. Primarily just before I cum. The one thing it hasn't affected is my ability to cum when getting sucked. Always shoot large loads.
You and I think so much alike! I know what you mean about full erections not being an issue between guys, and I guess it goes back to understanding the same plumbing as your own equipment in a different way than between a man and woman.Originally Posted by DMercator
Try a Bemer ,it puts oxygen back into your blood and improves circulation,it is a pad that you lay on and it has a small computer base .
But it comes with a belt you can wrap it around your cock or lay it across it and it'll get hard like right now.
My penis was broken by letting a fat chick on top ,it slipped out and she came down on it broke the tissue ,that was in 2011 .
Urologist did a procedure,helped a little but didn't fix it
I started using the Bemer for my heart but I lay the belt across my penis and it is helping ,just recently started sleeping on it every night it has settled my heart pain down ,my lower back is a mess and it has stopped hurting and my knees have stopped hurting too.
But Google the Bemer and watch the videos.
I thought it was BS at first but it does work.
I have got some of my length back but still helps I don't use Viagra anymore more and I have used it since 2011til 2020 and don't need it anymore.
I am 67 and have trouble staying hard enough to petatrate my partner. One reason I am a bottom. I still cum pretty good.
I'm about the same age as you, and my current playmate, Dave, is 67. I can tell you from experience that a decline in erectile function is a perfectly normal part of aging. Don?t sweat it!
Dave takes a little longer to become erect but has otherwise normal sexual function. He responds very well to oral stimulation, and that's alright with me.
I've bottomed for Dave seven or eight times, and he's able to penetrate me with little or no difficulty.
I've had pretty good results taking generic sildenafil, the active ingredient in Viagra, and wearing a latex cock ring during sex play. The ring seems to serve a twofold purpose, helping me maintain my erection and delaying my orgasm.
Even without pills, cock rings or other extraordinary measures, Dave can almost always bring me to a satisfying orgasm. Sometimes I get semi-erect, sometimes I don?t. Sometimes I ejaculate normally, sometimes I just dribble. It's still very enjoyable ... different, but enjoyable.
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It seems to be generally accepted that erectile function declines at older ages. While that may be the case to some extent for healthy men, it’s important to be aware that a flagging dick can be an indicator of serious health issues. Of course we’re all aware that low T can be a causal factor. But, what about you rarely hear talked about is that a limp dick is often the first indicator of atherosclerosis and coronary artery disease (CAD). It makes sense because epithelial dysfunction is a systemic pathology that is involved in CAD and which also impairs some of the key mechanisms involved in erectile function.
My dick stopped working properly about 9 years ago and I attributed it to many things. I had a temporary dip in my T levels, was going through a divorce, and the financial stress of a bad business venture, etc. When all the dust settled, things got a bit better but I would still have bouts of limp dick. Long story short, I needed to keep my game up, bring back on the dating scene, and I ended up getting my hands on the raw ingredient for Cialis and have been taking it since. It works like a charm, so why stop, right? However, treating that symptom seems to have obscured the underlying cause. It turns out that I learned recently I have advanced coronary artery disease and needed to have an intervention to open my arteries back up. Never had any heart symptoms yet, but I was moving quickly toward heart attack territory. It was just by chance that I got checked out and found it. All the while my dick was trying to tell me something and I ignored it.
Last edited by BeauKnerr; Sep 3, 2024 at 3:12 PM.
For anyone who cares, that should read *endothelial* dysfunction. I just realized I cited the wrong ‘thelial but the editing window had closed. My bad.
Ya, I take Flomax also, and it has my night time bathroom trips down to one, sometimes don’t get up at all. But it does do a number on your ejaculation volume. If I do stay semi hard, and cum, it’s just a dribble. One of the sad things of getting old. I’m 70’ish, 72 to be exact. 69 sounds so much better.
I am in my late 50s. I had a serious mountain bike accident over 30 years ago that resulted in surgical castration. In my early 20s I could shoot a couple of thick ropes of white spunk a good few foot. My penis was just nudging over 4 inches on a good day, but it was pretty thick for its short length. I had no issue getting and maintaining rock-hard erections.
Since the accident I only produce a tiny amount of testosterone, similar to that of a woman. My penis has shrunk considerably both in length and girth. My prosthetic balls kind of look rather silly now as they are not in same scale. I have been totally impotent since being castrated. I have to sit down to urinate. Thankfully my penis has not gone turtle, just yet!
I can still orgasm by using a vibrator, placed on the underside of my exposed helmet. I don't ejaculate but a small drop of clear liquid appears at the tip of my penis at the point of orgasm. Orgasms are weak and so-so at best. Sometime, if I had not had contractions, I would be questioning if I had actually climaxed. Afterwards I have no sexual desire for some time, and it can be up to several weeks.
I have been happily married to a very loving and understanding woman for over 20 years. It became apparent, very early on that if our marriage was to survive, she needed penetration from other men. She has been actively swinging for as many years, and considers herself bisexual and sexually adventurous.
If someone gets a low dose of tadalafil or sildenafil prescribed to take on a daily basis.
Does it have any effect? Does it help with you erection? And what are the side effects?
Also long therm side effects mentioned by the doctor or your experience?
I have been taking 2.5 mg daily tadalafil for several years, no adverse side effects at all. I'm 63 and with the right incentive, get as hard as I ever did.
My urologist put me on Flowmax and I too am not sure it does much. I still get up twice during the night the pee. I have not tried any boner pills, and I too am having trouble getting an erection. I know the pills are expensive and not covered by my health insurance.
Maca works wonders for me. I wake up rock hard most mornings. I am 60 years old and had not had that since my 20s. I also take 5mg of Cialis each evening, along with 5 Maca pills. On Amazon search Organic Maca Root Black, Red, Yellow 1900 MG per Serving - 150 Vegan Capsules Peruvian Maca Root Gelatinized 100%
Cialis I got online with no problem.
Before these pills I would lose my erection often.
Maybe you need a mouth that shows you a passionate blowjob loving on your cock as it desires and need someone with passion for sucking knowing that they will swallow every drop of your cum and love swallowing it maybe someone that will let you fuck their dirty mouth as a pussy. Slamming your cock in and out. And holding your cock down their throat. Knowing that they may gag on it. Or possibly the thrill of pissing on thier face as you finish on thier mouth as you get sucked. There are ways to give you a thrill back into getting off maybe a vibrator on your balls. Or making your frind suck on your balls for awhile then periodical licki n g your shaft and sucking the head as they gooble your cock.
i went a different route..........but you have to be religous on everything. Had some health problems a year ago, so changed my diet and started a summplement routine.
An erection is basically blood flow at the end of the day, and if the muscles cant relax and allow the blood flow..........no boner.
Hypertension, cariovascular lots of things can cause it.
I am on a strict regimine of Nattokinase, Tumeric, and Bromelain every day. Tumeric has proven studies, nattokinase has been given to stroke victims and all three help with inflamation.
After a month I added Larginine, Tribulis and horny goat weed...............6 weeks later very good improvement. But again, i am very disciplined and my health is generally pretty good
I love big loads maybe i can suck you to swallow your cum
I can't take turmeric Jaz. It messes my gut up.
I am 63 and still get hard but, I cum way too quick. If someone is aggressive sucking me or jerking me, I will shoot off in less than a minute. On the other side, I love sucking a beautiful dick and when my guy is ready to shoot off, I like to pull it out of my mouth and jerk the cum on my face. Then rub the cum around my face with his lovely dick! I love having my face painted!
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