Primarily I prefer regular rather than random sex.
I have had a single regular partner for more than 16 years.
Sex outside our relationship with men or women has been relatively sparce for both of us.
However, we very much enjoy random sex as well.
Sometimes random sex can be the beginning of a regular sex relationship.
That is how my present relationship started.
JEM
Even though I ended up voting for a regular, I agree that there's nothing quite so exciting as sucking a random guy. I remember those days when I would be literally shaking with lust when I was presented with a nice hard anonymous dick.Originally Posted by Warmnsalty
Still, nowadays I rarely visit my secret side, so when I do it is still incredibly exciting. Whew...is it ever!
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Gosh, I really appreciate both options as I do love sucking cock and that thrill of meeting a new penis is as natural to me as the Sun rising in the east each morning.
I simply love meeting and sucking cock for a new guy BUT having several true regulars that enjoy me often is wonderful too because knowing the man and what he enjoys gives me a chance to get into worship mode where I know what he likes and just do it relentlessly to the delicious reward.
Short answer, I guess I prefer new random cock, it's just so exciting. Variety IS the spice of life.
Regular for me. I like to get to know the guy I have sex with and to get to know how to give him maximum pleasure. That doesn't stop us from bringing in a third for some new cock now and then!
I like both, I have a regular I have fucked many times but the thrill of some strange is always there.
I think I would prefer a regular at this point. Want to be able to move from condoms to bareback. Not something I'm willing to risk with a random hookup
I haven't sucked off a lot of men. All have been pretty much random except one guy who I sucked off three times. He claimed to be straight, but it turned out he was interested in my cock also. I'm looking for a straight, preferably married, man to relieve on a regular basis. I get a lot of men pretending to be that, but in reality they want my cock as well.
I'd prefer someone regular.
I have been looking for a fwb forever. I want to play as often as possible. At least 3 times a week. I want to get into bed next to my wife with a load of cum deep inside of me. I also want to come home and give her a kiss after I've sucked and drained a cock.
If there was no chance of stds, random hook ups would be great. Seems like it would be easier to line something up.
I've played with about 15 guys over the years, most were random hookups, once-and-done encounters that always left me feeing a bit used and deceived. I far and away prefer ongoing relationships with a steady partner, someone I know well and to whom I can reveal a side of my sexual self that I keep carefully concealed from public view. My buddy, Dave, and I have been exploring our bisexual fantasies together for a little over eight years now, and have pretty much covered all the activities and positions possible between to horny, open-minded guys.
I want to find one person on a regular basis. Multiple hookups with multiple men is unsafe in my opinion. Better to have one trusted person.
I've done a few randoms over the years but would love to find a regular that you can build trust with. Seems to be too much risk with randoms.
Ideally I'd love to find a married guy that gets turned on by chatting about our unaware wives and ending with some long and hot M2M activities.
There is no denying that random hookups are exciting, but finding a regular someone is safer and can be exciting in its own way.
I am married and developed a friendship with another married guy. We just enjoyed hanging out together with no thought of anything sexual. Things changed one day when we confided to each other that our wives had lost interest in sex. This led to many discussions of sexual topics, including masturbation and our sexual pasts.
We both acknowledged that we had bisexual experiences when we were younger, and we slowly began thinking and eventually talking about a possibility of getting together. We had some steamy conversations, and one day he suggested we jack off together. I found the idea appealing, but I got a surprise. We were having a great time stroking and having a hot conversation and he suddenly came over to me, got on his knees and started sucking me. I wasn't expecting it but didn't resist. It felt so good to have a wet, warm and skilled mouth sucking my dick! I had been fairly close to cumming already and it wasn't long before I spurted into his mouth.
HIs cock was still hard and as soon as he finished, I started to suck him and continued until I felt him cumming into my mouth. I swallowed every drop -- as he had. We put our cocks away and started talking about what we had done and how much we enjoyed it. Soon he was unzipping me and sucking me again, and I reciprocated.
This started a long mutual cucksucking relationship. We continued to talk about sexual things as well. and we confided fantasies to each other. They were pretty vanilla fantasies at first but we eventually began to talk about kinky fantasies we had both had for years. This led to our enjoying kinky things that had fascinated us both for years.
So my "regular" person became much more exciting and fun than many, many random hookups would have been.
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