Bi-curious? No experience yet ?

**prettyboy69** · Mar 16, 2025, 12:34 PM

Are you a very Bi-curious guy that has no experience with men yet? But want it and crave it! , you think about all the time! you even jerk off to the thought of it! you have a deep guilty feeling when you do but yet the idea is so hot that you can't take it out of your mind.

The question guys is if you feel this way , what got you bi-curious in the first place ,what triggered that new deep desire and curiosity to want to cock , was it watching gay porn or even str8 porn , was it some attraction to men to some degree , was it some attraction to the the way cocks look maybe , was it a child hood event that led to this desire and now you want to try it.

Lets here from the bi-curious guys on this forum and her were your new desire stems from or what triggered this new desire you now have to dive into with cock play?

**Johnyonenut** · Mar 16, 2025, 7:34 PM

I have posted before some experiences from my childhood and youth that as I look back I could/should have taken advantage of, but I didn't. At 19 I did have one M/M encounter but that was all. Over the years I have fantasized about doing things with guys but it never happened. Why? Very married, small town, very homophobic family and friends. Now at 75 it is probably beyond hope and only a fantasy. I would like to be with a gentle man who would let me explore his body with no expectations and see what it would feel.like to suck a cock and maybe or maybe not take cum in my mouth or swallow it. I think what I would most like to try is to be on my stomach and feel a mans weight pressing me into the bed as he slowly fucks me bareback. I guess I am a pleaser and a bit submissive.

**TriNewThings000** · Mar 18, 2025, 10:55 PM

My curiosity started when I'd read penthouse forum stories with some bi interaction. Then I started wondering "wehat it would be like to be her" while watching women giving blowjobs and swallowing cum. It look so hot!!

**prettyboy69** · Mar 20, 2025, 12:07 PM

Originally Posted by TriNewThings000

My curiosity started when I'd read penthouse forum stories with some bi interaction. Then I started wondering "wehat it would be like to be her" while watching women giving blowjobs and swallowing cum. It look so hot!!

Ya I think that was part of what created my curiosity was watching porn and it started with loving to watch women perform oral on men then later lead to watching gay porn

**KDaddy23** · Mar 20, 2025, 1:01 PM

I've got more experience than I care to think about but I knew a lot of guys who got curious watching girls/women blow them and fucking them and asking, "What is it like?" Their curiosity would get piqued even more when a female would think for a moment before saying, "Um, because it feels good...?" which is an answer that isn't an answer but there is a way to find out - but they were too afraid to take the steps that would answer their questions.

But when they did, they got to understand why females give that non-answer: What it's like is so complex and deep that the only way the question can be answered is... because it feels good. I know what it's like to have sex with a man and I've never been able to 100% explain what it's like.

**hardcurve** · Mar 20, 2025, 2:46 PM

I had had some experiences with a couple of guys in my teens. One was only a one-off, but the other was off and on over a period of two or three years. I enjoyed immensely it of course but always felt guilty, and was afraid of being labelled "queer" in a small town. I basically repressed those urges, and over the years only occasionally indulging in male-to-male fantasies while masturbating.

It wasn't until I was much older that I began to really yearn for more sexual experiences with men. I started jerking off with other guys in chat rooms. The excitement I got from watching cocks ejaculating in straight porn led me to gay porn, and I began wondering what sucking cock would be like. I even ordered a natural looking silicon dildo to see what it would feel like in my mouth. Turns out it felt quite amazing, and now I needed the real thing! Eventually I joined Silver Daddies, created a profile, and posted some pics of myself. A little while later I was contacted by a few guys, though some seemed a bit flaky and some just had different interests.

One guy at least seemed right, and I agreed to meet. We met at a local restaurant, and walked to my place. I was very nervous and was having second thoughts, but he was very cool about it and I decided to go through with it. Minutes later we were naked in my bedroom, and we had what was to me a fantastic experience that involved mutual stroking and nipple play. With out thinking about it, I was on my knees sucking cock for the first time, and a little while later, he came in my mouth, and I liked it.

I wish to hell I hadn't waited so long, but at least I finally felt a male body against mine again, and tasted what I hungered for.

**querty** · Mar 22, 2025, 10:52 AM

Well said KD!
I was curious from my early teens, and never acted on it till my early 50's. A couple of close calls with a cousin and one of my brothers (who has a gorgeous cock), and some opportunities in my twenties in places like bars or Rehoboth Beach in Delaware that I passed up because for so long it was drilled into me how wrong it was to even think about such things (in my day, even being suspected of being Gay or Bi could be dangerous). I finally had a wonderful first experience and never looked back. Since then I've been in conversations with curious/no experience guys trying to describe the emotional and physical sensations, but in truth am just flinging adjectives around.

Originally Posted by KDaddy23

I've got more experience than I care to think about but I knew a lot of guys who got curious watching girls/women blow them and fucking them and asking, "What is it like?" Their curiosity would get piqued even more when a female would think for a moment before saying, "Um, because it feels good...?" which is an answer that isn't an answer but there is a way to find out - but they were too afraid to take the steps that would answer their questions.

But when they did, they got to understand why females give that non-answer: What it's like is so complex and deep that the only way the question can be answered is... because it feels good. I know what it's like to have sex with a man and I've never been able to 100% explain what it's like.

**KDaddy23** · Mar 22, 2025, 1:14 PM

Originally Posted by querty

Well said KD!
I was curious from my early teens, and never acted on it till my early 50's. A couple of close calls with a cousin and one of my brothers (who has a gorgeous cock), and some opportunities in my twenties in places like bars or Rehoboth Beach in Delaware that I passed up because for so long it was drilled into me how wrong it was to even think about such things (in my day, even being suspected of being Gay or Bi could be dangerous). I finally had a wonderful first experience and never looked back. Since then I've been in conversations with curious/no experience guys trying to describe the emotional and physical sensations, but in truth am just flinging adjectives around.

And the thing is that once you get that first experience under your belt, you tend to "regret" every close call you ever ran into. The thing about being bi-curious is the uncertainty involved, from deciding what it is you want to experience, who you'd want to experience it with, when, where, etc., right along with being curious about something that, very likely, you have no actual personal experience with and, of course, worrying about being gay, STDs, and other things that continue to plague bisexual men - and the curious ones.

The fear of the unknown is pretty powerful in this and even if the curious guy in question has been watching gay porn. Sure, you can see it (and in all of its scripted glory) but it can't and won't tell you what it feels like to get ready to get naked in front of a guy and for the purpose of having some kind of sex with him, something that's been known to give a curious guy a very bad case of cold feet and can cause him to change his mind. At the end of any day, it's all about how badly you want to end your curiosity and what are you willing to do to find out what a lot of us have found out in our lives: Having sex with a guy is not only sex but it can be damned good sex, too.

Over the decades, I've told guys all of what I know about having sex with another guy and to the best of my ability... and once I'm done talking, they still have a decision to make to take the plunge - with me or with someone else - and put an end to the curiosity that's only going to grow stronger until you do take the plunge and then, once you suck your first cock, the urge changes and now you can't get enough of having sex with a guy.

**licyou69** · Mar 23, 2025, 7:28 AM

I got interested in cuckold porn, specifically watching a man cum inside someone else's wife and the cuckold cleaning her or both of them up, as well as cuckolds actually sucking the wife's lover. The cuckold life was never going to be possible, but eating another man's cum straight from the source was.

**prettyboy69** · Apr 8, 2025, 11:21 AM

Ya I think porn has to be one of the top reasons men get curious about cock play with other guys I know it was certainly my reason 100% so blame it on the porn haha

**newtococksucking** · Apr 15, 2025, 12:28 AM

I'm otherwise straight, but I love cock. I want to be a cocksucker so bad! I love the thought of sucking and deepthroating big cocks. Letting a guy hold my head and fuck my throat over and over again. I also want to take big thick loads in my mouth. I feel like I was meant to be a cock sucker.

**prettyboy69** · Apr 16, 2025, 11:08 AM

Originally Posted by newtococksucking

I'm otherwise straight, but I love cock. I want to be a cocksucker so bad! I love the thought of sucking and deepthroating big cocks. Letting a guy hold my head and fuck my throat over and over again. I also want to take big thick loads in my mouth. I feel like I was meant to be a cock sucker.

But what got your curious ? what triggered the curiosity

**skuz69** · Yesterday, 8:45 AM

Once you take the initiative to try it, you will be hooked. I didn't suck a cock until I was 72 and now I can't get enough of it. I love a nice sloppy wet pussy, but there's something magical about sucking a cock to completion. Of course, I like to get mine sucked, too.

**prettyboy69** · Yesterday, 2:08 PM

Originally Posted by skuz69

Once you take the initiative to try it, you will be hooked. I didn't suck a cock until I was 72 and now I can't get enough of it. I love a nice sloppy wet pussy, but there's something magical about sucking a cock to completion. Of course, I like to get mine sucked, too.

I agree and I tell guys that never sucked cock before that once you try it, becomes very addictive and you will want more and more cock

**awibiguy** · Yesterday, 3:58 PM

My curiosity is limited to performing oral sex on another man. I am attracted to the cock and the act of pleasuring it with my mouth. It really turns me on when I think about doing it. I am not interested in anything involving the anus or kissing.

I really believe my curiosity stems from my wife being an amazing cock sucker. She gladly sucks me off whenever I want and is more than happy to swallow my ejaculate or wear it on her face for me. She knows how much I enjoy it!

I believe I have internalized my experiences with my wife into a desire to pay that same attention to a man. Can I pleasure a man as well as she does me? Can I make him cum? Can I swallow his cum so that he enjoys it like I do?

I am in my early 50s and not sure if/when it will happen but, I am certainly very curious about it. I wish the uncertainty involved was less. My lack of action in this regard stems from not finding the right person to share it with, when, where, etc. I worry tremendously about STDs, and bringing something home that I will never be able to get rid of.

**prettyboy69** · Today, 11:17 AM

Originally Posted by awibiguy

My curiosity is limited to performing oral sex on another man. I am attracted to the cock and the act of pleasuring it with my mouth. It really turns me on when I think about doing it. I am not interested in anything involving the anus or kissing.

I really believe my curiosity stems from my wife being an amazing cock sucker. She gladly sucks me off whenever I want and is more than happy to swallow my ejaculate or wear it on her face for me. She knows how much I enjoy it!

I believe I have internalized my experiences with my wife into a desire to pay that same attention to a man. Can I pleasure a man as well as she does me? Can I make him cum? Can I swallow his cum so that he enjoys it like I do?

I am in my early 50s and not sure if/when it will happen but, I am certainly very curious about it. I wish the uncertainty involved was less. My lack of action in this regard stems from not finding the right person to share it with, when, where, etc. I worry tremendously about STDs, and bringing something home that I will never be able to get rid of.

That's very unique and not typical answer as to how your curiosity for cock got started , but I can see that happening , very interesting ....I wouldnt over think it too much about finding perfect guy , your missing out ...just do it , you will wonder why the hell you didnt do it sooner as i said cock is very addictive and great